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Q: Single-baby-school
asked by: Misty on August 11th, 2003
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Any advice on what I should do: im 16, my long term boyfriend left me and 2 weeks later I found out im pregnant. Is abortion right or should I keep this kid? Crying or Very sad ~thanks
ok i'm gonna add this to the bottom b-cuz people are getting the wrong idea. Im 16 hes 19. We had been together for 3 years. I gave into him "harping" at me to have sex with him, and a lil while later he broke up with me over me going out to the movies with my bestfriend. And 2 weeks later like I said early surprise im pregnant and we used protection ....That obviously didn't work!!! Anyway i'm putting my child up for adoption, once its born and have a wonderful family already interested!! :d


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Mesmerizeu15
replied on August 12th, 2003
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16-long term boyfriend is an problem lately- beautiful son sean


i don't believe in abortion and I think that if you are old enough and mature enough to lay down and spread your legs that you are old enough and mature enough to deal with the responsibilty...I hope I don't sound like a health forum I am only being real...


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stacie

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HongKongChick
replied on August 13th, 2003
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Yes if u were brave enough to have sex and get pregnant, u'd be brave enough to have a baby!

Though I dont like abortion, but I am pro-choice, it's ur choice, there is no right or wrong about that.

Think it thru like if you will be financially ready or can u get help?! Get this 16 year old jerk to pay for child support!

And are u gonna still go to school? School and child, very difficult unless u have help

and do you think with ur knowledge on life and education, would u be able to give ur child a balanced childhood? Would u be able to give ur child the right mind set? Would u be able to bare the pressure, the stress??

Really think it thru...No one can tell you whether u should or should not get an abortion because u are a woman, u have a choice, but if you decide to do it, dont regret it
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Amanda
replied on August 13th, 2003
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Think B4 U Do Something
You should keep ur baby and if u cant take care of him or her then have an adoption...All I can say is think about what u are doing b4 u go off and do it...I mean "think"!!! You had sex now take the responsibility that came w/ it...You dont need the babies daddy 2 help u but get his ass for child support! Just remember think!!!!
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lhileman
replied on August 13th, 2003
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Stop Putting Her Down
I think alot of these girls come on here for advide, not criticism, they probably get enouth of that from thier parents, so please, why can't everyone just admit, everyone makes mistakes, no one is perfect, so I think everyone should stop being so judgemental, and just be a friend.


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HongKongChick
replied on August 13th, 2003
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Re: Stop Putting Her Down
lhileman wrote:
i think alot of these girls come on here for advide, not criticism, they probably get enouth of that from thier parents, so please, why can't everyone just admit, everyone makes mistakes, no one is perfect, so I think everyone should stop being so judgemental, and just be a friend.


greatest reply I read so far!
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