I am a student and currently studying sociology and social institutions. We have been recently studying about marriage. Now, i've read several posts about the sex life...Or lack of, in your marriages. Here's the scientific explination:
love is a triggered chemical reaction in one's brain when they feel connected to someones intellect, smell, and laugh. Yes, it's that simple. When the chemical recognizes this as such, it sends the chemical all through the body giving a natural high and happiness, which we term as "love". After a year or two, your body becomes comfortable and aware of the other persons intellect, smell and laugh, therefore needing something more. There are only two ways of reaching that natural high again. Are you ready ladies? The first is sexual activity, and the second...Is eating chocolate.
When reaching orgasm your body is once again filled with this love for the other person, and renews it for a period of time. Chocolate contains the same chemical which may be a cause of why people eat a lot of chocolate when in love.
Beware of break ups. When separated from someone you were in love with, eating chocolate can defect and send a horrible feeling thorugh you, like a withdrawal from an addiction that can't get you high anymore. This will cause depression. Also! Do not have sex with someone to try and recover from someone else. This too causes depression because though you may get a little high from sex, your mind chemical has not launched itself to this person's intellect, smell and laugh.
Please be careful with your feelings and I hope i've helped in some sort of way...Just like bon jovi says, "the times when you're in love, and all you do is think". :wink: