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randomguy
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Joined: 29 Jan 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Weslaco, TX
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15 Year Old Potential Father And Not a Clue What to Do Help!
Posted: 01-29-06 22:45pm
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Early today at around 7pm or so, my
girlfriend of about 2 months called me and
told me that we needed to talk. I figured
oh s**t I hope this doesn't have to deal
with when we had sex a couple of weeks
before. That was the only thing on my
mind. That it could be a million other
things but for some reason I knew it was
going to be that one. When she left her
house for a bit she called me back and
then she told me that she thinks that
she's pregnant. At that exact second my
heart dropped in the to pits of my
stomach. Knowing that this night was
indeed going to be a long one. We talked
it over and over and over. I immediatly
asked her questions to see if she was
pregnant. I asked her how long has it
been since she should have had her period.
She told me eight days. That she usually
gets it on the twentieth of every month.
So I figure maybe a month of regularity.
Then I checked and the last time that we
had sex was on the twentieth... Once I
made that realization, I felt dead. That
I have now f***ed up the life of the
person that I love the most and mine. We
used a condom every time that we did do
it. It didn't rip it was perfectly
intact. Im wondering how the h**l could
it happen then. We were safe. The condom
fit me fine nothing came out the side of
it onto my scr*tum or anything. I don't
even think I and a huge amount of semen
come out that time. That is why I am so
confused why she is late. How could she
be late? By eight days? Is that normal
for a fifteen year old to be off a week or
so? Is it normal for a 15 year old to be
going through a situation like this? I
never thought that this would happen to
me, or that I would do this to someone at
this age. To get them pregnant. I know
await for her to confirm with a test. I
don't know how in the world im going to
get through this night. Please reply back
with some answer to any of my questions.
Thank you for taking the time to read
this.
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 01-29-06 23:48pm
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First of all, she really needs to take a
test if her period doesn't start within
the next few days! It could very well
just her hormones messing up her period.
This happened to me once, I was 10 days
late on my period..Had a lot of pregnancy
symptoms, then the day before I was
planning on taking a test my period came.
So, just give it a few days, take a test
and see wat happens. At 15 your periods
could be very messed up, mine were. Just
look into her getting on birth control, it
seems like you're very scared of having a
child. Every time you have sex there
could be a chance she could get pregnant.
Good luck!
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randomguy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jan 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Weslaco, TX
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Thank You
Posted: 01-30-06 09:20am
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Thank you very much, she is going to take
a test today or try to find a way to take
a test today without her parents noticing.
Thank you for the reply-godbless-
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Carifairy
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Posted: 01-30-06 12:10pm
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Condoms are effective, but the pill would
be much better. She doesn't need parental
consent for birth control. Planned
parenthood would be able to help you.Also
she doesn't even need parental consent for
abortion either, if that's what she would
want. There are ways to get out of
parnetal consent. If you need any help pm
me.
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
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Posted: 01-30-06 16:18pm
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Periods can easily be messed up by stress
I know ive had a few of those late scares
in my life and one of my friends went like
3 weeks thinking she was knocked up but
wasnt. You used a condom so id say shes
not shes just having a missed period. As
for taking atest without parents noticing
shouldnt be to hard if you can find time
to have sex ucan find time to pee!
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randomguy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jan 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Weslaco, TX
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She's Taking the Test Right Now.
Posted: 01-30-06 17:56pm
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Today after school she went with one of
our friends to get a home pregnancy test.
I coudn't go with her, she's in a
different city. Its been an hour since
school has gotton out, im worried. I
don't know what could be happening. Im
now in suspense.
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randomguy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jan 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Weslaco, TX
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Thank You For Your Support!
Posted: 01-30-06 18:05pm
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She's not pregnant. I hope this scare
doens't happen again. Now I know, birth
control, and condom.
Godbless, iloveyouall, bye
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Surrender
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 128 Location: canada
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Posted: 01-30-06 19:15pm
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Well theres a happy ending.......Well, you
know what I mean .:.Wink.:.
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Lilypad
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Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
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Angel_Who_Crys
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Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 181 Location: In The Darkness
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Posted: 02-05-06 15:48pm
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Oh my reading this made me think of my
little brother who may have his gf
pregnant. He is only 15 and im sure his
gf not much older. She is pregnant he
just dont knoe if its his or not. 0.0
anyways didn't you say you used protection
all the time and none of the broke? If so
I find it hard to believe she is pregnant.
She might just be so worried about it she
is stressing which can make her . Late.
On the other hand if there was one time
that you didnt use protection or the
condom broke then I would say she should
deffenty get a test done.
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manbaby305
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Joined: 13 Oct 2007 Posts: 1
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Posted: 10-13-07 15:29pm
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i need help cause im 15 and my girlfriend
might b pregnant we used a condem and
everythig and it didnt bust i dont kno how
it happend she had her period and what not
but she wasent cramping or having her
usuall symptoms and now sha throwing up
none stop in the morning and at night but
i think its cause she not eating but
please i need some answres
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Mabel
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Posted: 10-13-07 15:49pm
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| manbaby305
wrote: | | i need help cause im 15 and
my girlfriend might b pregnant we used a
condem and everythig and it didnt bust i
dont kno how it happend she had her period
and what not but she wasent cramping or
having her usuall symptoms and now sha
throwing up none stop in the morning and
at night but i think its cause she not
eating but please i need some
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You used a condom - GREAT JOB!
If she had her period, I don't think she
is pregnant. Just in case though, please
have her take a pregnancy test. There are
a lot of reasons she could be throwing
up.
Pregnancy tests are given for free at
Planned Parenthood - and they don't tell
parents.
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unbreakable105
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Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Posts: 34 Location: ,
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Posted: 10-13-07 18:16pm
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manbaby305, It doesn't sound like she's
pregnant. And if she's not eating and
she's throwing up...I seriously stress she
go to the doctor. That isn't very healthy.
But yes, take a home pregnancy test like
Ingi said. That's the only way to know for
sure.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 11-06-07 16:35pm
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I wish some of these people would update
us so we know they are ok.
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