Ok guys...Me and my gf had sex one day
before her period with a condom and she
got her period the next day on december
20th so obviously she should get her
period january 20th and she is 8 days late
alredy....The last time we had sex was
that time so is there a chance she is
pregnant? She took 2 tests already and
they say she is not.....Any comments are
appreciated
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nba13
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2006 Posts: 34
Posted: 01-28-06 16:45pm
Anybody know...Please help :?:
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Lalee
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 991 Location: South Carolina
Posted: 01-28-06 18:11pm
Is she usually on time? Also, (obviously,
I don't know how old you two are) is being
sexually active new for her? If it is,
it's possible that's throwing her off a
bit. And, just being a teenager in
general can screw it up... Did for me.
She might just be late... Or even skip a
month. It happens.
The more she worries about it, the longer
it will take for her to start. Stress
affects how your body works a lot..
Especially when it comes to women and
their periods.
Again, I don't know how old she is, and I
don't know what the laws are where you
live, but it's possible she could
confidentially go to a clinic and get a
blood test. That's if you're completely
worried. You can look for a planned
parenthood place or a clinic and just call
and see what their policies are regarding
parental notification. Even if they do
contact parents, they can't do so just
because you call and ask.
Good luck!
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nba13
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2006 Posts: 34
Posted: 01-28-06 18:40pm
Yeah but she took the test twice which
both came negative and she had her period
the day after we had sex so I dunno...Im
really confused.....Im in college so that
was the first time like in 3 months we did
it so im not sure.....I didnt think I had
anything to worry about cuz she got her
period the day after and now its a month
later and shes late...And yes she is
usually regular
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Lalee
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 991 Location: South Carolina
Posted: 01-28-06 19:37pm
Obviously, no one here can tell you
whether or not she's pregnant. My
boyfriend and I have been where the two of
you are.. Trust me, I know how
excrutiatingly worrisome it can be, and I
totally sympathize.
However, hpts are pretty reliable, and i'd
wager that if she took two of them and
they both were negative... She's probably
not pregnant. Especially if she took them
this long after she was expected to
start.
The delayed period could be from any
number of things, but it's most likely
because she's stressed out; whether it's
about this or something else or a lot of
things together. I'm not going to tell
you to tell her to relax, because it will
never work, I know. However, if she (and
you) is that worried, she should go get a
blood test. It can at least give her
peace of mind and maybe help her relax.
