Hey Girl

First of all, take control over the situation...If he hurts you stand your ground but instead of getting upset, get angry and wait for him to come to you...If he really cares he will. Start doing what you want to do and when you want to do it...Don't let him always get his wasy even though you love him...Materialism is not a sign of love its like an easy get out for men when they have trouble showing emotion and believe me a lot do. The ex's name thing shouldnt really matter sometimes it really is just out of habit...Unconscious and I guess you just have to accept that he did care for her even though it is hard. Don't marry him though until you sort this out...Dont let him gain from your insecurity...Take control

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