First of all, take control over the
situation...If he hurts you stand your
ground but instead of getting upset, get
angry and wait for him to come to you...If
he really cares he will. Start doing what
you want to do and when you want to do
it...Don't let him always get his wasy
even though you love him...Materialism is
not a sign of love its like an easy get
out for men when they have trouble showing
emotion and believe me a lot do. The ex's
name thing shouldnt really matter
sometimes it really is just out of
habit...Unconscious and I guess you just
have to accept that he did care for her
even though it is hard. Don't marry him
though until you sort this out...Dont let
him gain from your insecurity...Take
control
rue
xxxx
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RubyLei
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005 Posts: 33 Location: UK
Posted: 01-28-06 05:44am
Sorry ignore this...Keepin goin to new
post by accident :s