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Tess B
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005
Posts: 80
Location: Aberdeen
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Moody And Irritable
Posted: 01-27-06 11:33am
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Hi everyone,
i wonder if anyone can help me! I'm 12
weeks pregnant on monday and lately I have
been really moody and irritable but it
seems to be mainly directed at my
boyfriend. Sometimes the sight of him
just really winds me up and I feel like I
have to leave the room in order to calm
down... Has anyone else had this and how
long did it last or am I just weird??
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fatfamily02
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005
Posts: 3050
Location: Georgia, USA
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Posted: 01-27-06 11:48am
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I dont know if this is true for you or
not--but I have noticed with pregnant
women--myself included, that we become
more unacceptable of stupid crap.
Anything we might see in them that we dont
want around our baby, and it just becomes
disqusting. Just cant deal with stupid
crap---
we begin to see with different eyes.
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Tess B
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005
Posts: 80
Location: Aberdeen
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Posted: 01-27-06 11:54am
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Yeah I know what you mean!
I love him to bits but right now I can't
deal with him! Especially the cuddling
and whatever.. I'm ready to scream
does it last long or am I stuck with it
now?
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Mommi2Bee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005
Posts: 123
Location: Arizona, USA
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Posted: 01-27-06 12:00pm
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I was the exact same way at first. After
a couple months things got back to normal
with us though, sometimes I still want to
rip his head off or I just stand the sight
of him but not as bad as it was at
first...I was ready to leave. You just
got to remembr how much you loved him and
how things were before you got preggo.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005
Posts: 3050
Location: Georgia, USA
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Posted: 01-27-06 12:32pm
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| tess b
wrote: | yeah I know what you mean!
I love him to bits but right now I can't
deal with him! Especially the
cuddling and whatever.. I'm ready to
scream
does it last long or am I stuck with it
now? |
seriously I think it is the neediness in
him, that is affecting the way you
feel--makes sense that you have a baby on
the way and you need him to not be so
needy. You have a baby you will have
to wait on hand and foot for a lot of
years, and maybe this weakness in him is
really bothering you. Maybe your
thinking he needs to grow up!! Just a
suggestion--that is what I feel by reading
your post. I hate it when mine is so
needy and I will not encourage it, by
petting him--if you know what I mean.
And the irritability has gotten better for
me too!!! Maybe I feel my getting on
to him has helped??? Idk I cant be
raising him too--if I have a baby to worry
about--he needs to be a man and have true
intentions, and not those seeking selfish
gain. True motives to be my everything I
need, to help me raise these children.
Not some child I still have to teach and
hold his hand too. Not gonna happen.
No pot smokin, no "pitty pot" party's,
just grow up already--i need your help????
You know????
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 5041
Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 01-27-06 13:51pm
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I don't remember this in my first
pregnancy....But I am 12 weeks along
(farther than we thought) and I can't
stand the cuddling, touching, rubbing on
my belly, and every thing like that. I
don't even really want to have sex right
now either, my hubby and I had a very
active nighttime/in bed life and now I
just can't stand it.....(kind of hurts
anyway)
i hope that I do get over this soon and
very soon because I hate feeling this way
towards my luv.
Another thing that bothers me is when I
see people with their kids and all I can
think is that I wouldn't do that with mine
or why do they treat there kids like
that.....Like I am so much better then
they. It drives me crazy I just want to
critisize everyone on their parenting
skills. (not that I am even one yet.)
genipher
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tiggerlove82
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Posts: 21
Location: bridport
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Posted: 01-27-06 14:32pm
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Im 4 and a half months pregnant and I
still blow steam off at my boyfriend I
just cant seem to help it my hormones are
all over the place
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 5041
Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 01-27-06 15:45pm
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At least we have somthing to blame it
on...U know?
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Posts: 7892
Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Rubbing On My Belly...
Posted: 01-27-06 16:56pm
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I have the hardest time with that... I am
not a touchy feely person to any extent
so when I got preggy, I knew that this was
a bridge I was going to have to cross one
day.
I have to mentally tell myself to "back
up" while these people touch my belly. I
don't mind when my fiance' does
it...Because it's his baby too, but it's
the people that I barely know that find it
'ok' to just rub your belly. So far no
one has lifted my shirt. People have
asked me to see it and i'll show it to
them, I just don't want them to lift it at
their own will.
I am very proud of my belly. It represent
the development of life that is forming
inside of me. My belly is beautiful in my
eyes (so far no stretchmarks!!) I am 27
weeks and love every passing day of
watching my belly grow...It just a battle
to live with when people constantly want
to touch it!!! Lol....I'm at that point
where i've just gotten over it. I've come
to realize that they aren't going to stop
feeling on it ot commenting on it...So I
just sit back and smile!!
Sarah
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 5041
Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 01-27-06 17:01pm
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I don't like people touching my tummy
either. My sister is the same way when
it comes to her little cutie pie jayleen.
People think its ok to touch the belly
and the baby.....Wonder why that is.
(it's mostly old people too)
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Tess B
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005
Posts: 80
Location: Aberdeen
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Posted: 01-30-06 08:27am
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Thank you guys so much I feel almost
normal now!! Hahaha
i have spoke to him about it and pretty
much said look i'm sorry I feel this way
but I can't be done with the constant
cuddling etc, give me my own space for a
bit and i'll be fine, he is really
understanding about it!! :d
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-30-06 08:54am
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Hehe, my doc told my bf that the 1st and
3rd tri are the worst and we are allowed
to be b*tchy. My son is 7 1/2 months old
and I am still moody and irritable-lol my
excuse is lack of sleep now-lol
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diamondsz
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Posted: 01-30-06 09:04am
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Lol jess
I luv my hubby to bits but it feels as if
he is in my face all the time, I hate it,
I have been biting my tongue lately cause
hes a great guy but sometimes I cant and I
say mean things but its part of the
pregnancy. With elisa I was just a happy
camper and now im just a big health forum
lol!! Like you said just asking for
space is the best thing you can do I have
had to a few times cause I told hubby I
wasnt feeling great and I just wanted to
be left alone and most times he was okay
with it
good luck~!~
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005
Posts: 5261
Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
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Posted: 01-30-06 09:07am
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It's definitely par for the course, if you
know what I mean. 1st trimester I
.H.A.T.E.D my husband sometimes. Like I
wanted to divorce him and move out of the
house. I think it was just the hormones
magnifying the things I already didn't
like about him. I didn't want him to
touch me either. But that had a lot more
to do with the fact that I felt like crap
every single day and I couldn't stand the
weight of his hands on my tummy. Now the
touching and belly rubbing doesn't bother
me any (well into second trimester will
enter third in 3 wks). My mom says it'll
all start again soon. Just relax we'll
all be normal again someday (i hope :lol:
). Besides it's really great to be able
to not have to do things that we don't
want to do and blame hormones! Enjoy
this time!
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