My boyfriend and I are using condoms, but
for some reason we cant get him to stay
hard, what should I do? Hes fine without
the condom :roll:
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ATLmama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 29 Location: Atlanta, Ga
Posted: 01-26-06 23:18pm
Maybe u should go on bc.
I think he gets like that bec. He doesnt
feel the "raw" sensations of your vag. He
can't really feel nothing, making him go
soft. But thats just my theory!
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tabby1girl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 9 Location: Michigan
Posted: 01-26-06 23:23pm
We were on bc but I was on the nuva ring
and it made me gain so much weight so I
went off of it. I havnt had health
insurance b/c I just started a new job, my
ins starts feb 1st. And then I will be
going back on bc
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ATLmama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 29 Location: Atlanta, Ga
Posted: 01-26-06 23:28pm
Oh ok. Well im not sure what to tell you
on how to keep it hard hun. Maybe you
want to get some of that warming ky jelly,
and after he puts the condom on put some
on your hand and "message" him and when
hes hard, jump on it!!!!! Lol im just
kidding. Im not sure boo...
<<<<does anyone else have any
suggestions?>>>>
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tabby1girl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 9 Location: Michigan
Posted: 01-26-06 23:31pm
We have talked about using ky. We have
some. We havnt used the ky yet, we'll
have to give it a try. The strange thing
is that when we first started to use
condoms, he was able to keep it hard, but
after about a week, he couldnt. Its hard
when it goes in, but then it just goes
soft on us.
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ATLmama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 29 Location: Atlanta, Ga
Posted: 01-26-06 23:36pm
Im sorry, babes. Im fresh out of ideas.
Just give the warming ky a try.
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 01-26-06 23:39pm
Believe it or not, this happens with a lot
of men. Fortunately i've never had that
problem. Even when I was on bc I still
made my partners use condoms more often
than not. I don't know what to tell you
except maybe try new things... Positions,
role playing, etc. To keep it exciting in
more ways than one. :)
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rasuyoung
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 464 Location: Long Island, NY
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Posted: 01-28-06 22:20pm
When you go back on bc, ortho tri-cyclen
lo might be a good choice for you. It has
low hormones, so you shouldn't gain much,
if any weight on it.
