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Q: Have You Ever Broken Your Own Hymen?
asked by: ava_adore on January 26th, 2006
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Right now i'm a virgin and have no desire whatsoever to have some damn penis break my hymen.



Basically,i just want to get this caca over with and find and alternative way for my hymen to break.
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wakkochic17
replied on January 28th, 2006
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Try a tampon..
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on January 28th, 2006
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Re: Have You Ever Broken Your Own Hymen?
ava_adore wrote:
right now i'm a virgin and have no desire whatsoever to have some damn penis break my hymen.




Basically,i just want to get this caca over with and find and alternative way for my hymen to break.


can I ask why you want it broke..? I've never heard of anyone wanting to break their own
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mongirl
replied on January 30th, 2006
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Yes ive broke my own hymen when I was like 12 I think and I was in ballet for 8 years and then just one day I jumped in the air and landed in the splits just like I had before but then I felt pain and went to the bathroom and there was blood and I did not start my period until about 4 mos later.
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munky23
replied on February 7th, 2006
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Well i've been having sex for a couple months and I swear my hymen never broke (just stretched). So if I go a week without sex, it still hurts a little to put it in. As long as your first time is with a guy that goes slow and gentle its not too bad.
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boomshaka
replied on May 2nd, 2008
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hi
hey i have the same problem.
i want to have sex with my bf
but what if he thinks its gross?
cuz off the blood..=/
we are both virgins.
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boomshaka
replied on May 2nd, 2008
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i wanna break my own hymen.
how do i know i have one though?
alot of people dont.
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SmilesandSunshine
replied on September 15th, 2008
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Wow, I was the same way.

If you don't want a penis to break it then whats the rush of breaking it, Sex is something special you share with someone. If you are nervous about having sex and it being painful don't worry if you love them you wont feel a thing. All you feel is pressure.

if your worried about the bleeding it's nothing major its spotting and you only see it when you pee then wipe(that is how it was for me and many of my friends)

All women have hymens (the cherry) ha ha so don't think you are lucky to not have one! People who believe they don't have them are a little silly and obviously have not broken them just yet.
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SmilesandSunshine
replied on September 16th, 2008
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^^^^ referring to the post above.
My last statement may or may not be true.

I have seen on here that maybe women think that we don't ALL have Hymens. I was under the impressions as women we all have one! I know that some women have very stubborn hymens and ones that will not break but very unsure if all women have it!

Sorry. Just wanted to clear that up haha
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Jazzy77
replied on September 16th, 2008
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Re: Have You Ever Broken Your Own Hymen?
ava_adore wrote:
Right now i'm a virgin and have no desire whatsoever to have some damn penis break my hymen.




Basically,i just want to get this caca over with and find and alternative way for my hymen to break.


hi ava...i think maybe you should contemplate this for a while before deciding what to do. from the looks of your other posts, you have some things going on in your life that you need to focus on other than whether or not your hymen is broken.

while i do understand your sentiment, and your logic, i think that there may be some underlying issues that you need to deal with and get beyond before you consider having any kind of a cherry-breaking event.

i'm here to talk with you about this if you want. many of us are here for you. please talk with us and don't feel the need to do something rash like taking your own virginity. again, like i said, i can understand the logic and the sentiment, but you have a lot going on for one girl and i think you need to work through some of those issues one-at-the-time.

jasmine
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Maddie34
replied on September 16th, 2008
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Re: ^^^^ referring to the post above.
SmilesandSunshine wrote:
My last statement may or may not be true.

I have seen on here that maybe women think that we don't ALL have Hymens. I was under the impressions as women we all have one! I know that some women have very stubborn hymens and ones that will not break but very unsure if all women have it!

Sorry. Just wanted to clear that up haha


Nope, not every woman is born with a hymen. A majority of women lose their hymen by just being active. For most it's not painful and like you said, there's barely any blood, so most women don't even realize its already gone. Smile

Boomshaka, there isn't a lot of blood involved with losing your virginity. As long as there's a lot of foreplay, lots of lubrication, and you can relax, then you'll have a painless first time with no blood. If for some reason there is blood, your bf would be a toad to tell you it was gross. You can check for your hymen with your fingers or a mirror, but some women have less hymen tissue than others, so you may not be able to see it.
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confused1988
replied on September 23rd, 2008
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so if i do ballet and the splits does it means that my hymen is broken?is there a possiblity that is not?i started ballet at the age of 16.
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Bornwithwings
replied on April 12th, 2009
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use your fingers and be gentle till u shove it all in then your good to go.
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kat124
replied on April 13th, 2009
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when i lost my virginity i did not experience any bleeding, however i did feel some pain. does that mean i don't have a hymen or it didn't break? i have been sexually active for a year, every time i have sex, it hurts when he goes in.....any suggestions? thanks
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Shazj786
replied on May 16th, 2009
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well im a virgin and i have never had sex but i use to masturbate alot so im not sure if i have my hymen but i dont think i have.. my family would be ashamed because a girl is only virgin if her hymen is still there.. but i think mine is not there anymore so now im in trouble lol.. but my family are quite strict. but now im scared to even tell anyone or even tell my boyfriend because he only wants to marry me if i have a hymen and if i bleed during 1st time sex... so im just praying that i bleed or im literally dead lol.
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