Wife Says She Feel Out of Love Posted: 01-25-06 22:11pm
I been marryed for 16 years. Me and my
wife have had problems in the past. She
cheated on me 2 times. I understand why I
wasn't there for her and I never gave her
the attention she needed. I have never
fully forgave her for that but I still
understand. In the last year I went on
meds and I have changed to the person she
wanted and marryed. Thats what she told
me. But now she said it's to late and to
many bad memorys. She said she loves me
but not like a wife should. She said she
loves me like a friend only. She says she
hates me somtimes. See the thing is we
don't fight we havent in about 6 months
now. Im trying real hard to keep my
marrage. She told me last night and a few
times before she wants a deviorce. She
went to see a lawyer already. All she
wants is the kids and the house and said I
can have everything eles. I will be able
to see the kids anytime I want. She don't
even want child support. She is hurting
inside. I tryed to talk her into
councling and she don't want it. Hat the
hell do I do. Do I give her what she
wants or fight her and lose her all to
gether. I need the help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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danthadon
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2005 Posts: 53 Location: BC
Posted: 01-26-06 21:30pm
Why doesnt she love you, what is it you do
that aggravates her?
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hurt22
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2006 Posts: 8
Posted: 01-26-06 22:33pm
Looks like she is the one that needs the
pills. Lol. Sorry to hear about all of
this. Some counseling would certanly do
her good.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 02-06-06 15:48pm
If she says she does not love you anymore
nothing will help,not even counceling.I
have fallen out of love before and when he
tried to change it was too late.I think
the best thing you can do is leave it
alone and give her her space.Who
knows,maybe if you do through out time her
feelings may re appear if you continue to
be the man she was married to.
