Is Anyone Stressed Out Here, Or Am I the Only One???? Posted: 01-25-06 19:56pm
For anyone who has children, how are your
stress levels with yourself? I mean
are you at all concerned with your own
health, more so than what you were before
you had baby(ies). I am so fregging
paranoid since I had my child that it is
consuming my entire life.
No seriously!
I never used to be like this, and it is
starting to get me down. Way back in
sept. I had a cyst removed, and I
thought I had cancer. That stressed me
out for a long time...Now.. I have this
chest/breast/heart pain, that is being
looked into. I over react. I'm
thinking I have breast cancer/lung cancer/
might have a heart attack, have a enlarged
heart, heart murmur...Or something..That
will involve me dying.
Before I had my baby, I could care less
what happened to me. But know I love
him so much that I get sick to my stomach
thinking about what would happen to him if
I died.
I don't think I would approve of my hubby
with another woman around him. I don't
want another woman taking my place, as
mommy. He is my baby!!!
Has anyone ever thought of that?..
I am soo scared...I go for chest xrays
tomorrow..What if something is there????
I swear paranoia definitely comes with
motherhood.
You're not alone!
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crystal21401
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jan 2006 Posts: 33
Posted: 01-27-06 20:23pm
I stress more than before my son was born
but I am usually calm. I have that heart/
breast area pain and I had to have my
heart checked and I was told it was
nothing, probally just your heart loving
your son so much, I know thats true for
me.
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 01-27-06 20:25pm
It's natural to stress more and worry
about your health and future and lifespan
after you have kiddos. I want to stay
alive as long as possible so my baby
doesn't have to be without me for any
longer than he has to!! (or me without
him, I guess)
