Joined: 10 Aug 2003 Posts: 5 Location: pennsylvania
1st Time Pregnancy Worries Posted: 08-10-03 17:11pm
Hello I have already written this but its
my first time here and dont think I posted
in the pregnancy forum...Anyway im 30yrs
old and just starting ym 4th month ....I
cannot stop thinking something is wrong in
my pregnancy I just dont feel pregnant
anymore....Im very excited that im
finially pregnant but cannot shke this
feeling ...I heard the babys heartbeat
last month and it was perfect but I had an
extremly stressful month and just havent
felt right....I go to the drs again this
wed. 8/13 and am just terrified the dr is
gonna tell me something horrible....I try
not to think about it but cannot shake
this feeling....Everytime I pee I get a
stabbing feeling in the lower left side, I
started a prescription for a bladder
infection but wont know for 3-5 days if I
have one.....Am I just being paranoid or
what...............Anyone :
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mirandak119
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 5 Location: usa
Don't Worry Posted: 08-10-03 23:12pm
I remember feeling the exact same way
about the same time as you... I'm nearly
7 mths pregnant now. I also had a
couple uti's, one of which was bad enough
to cause me to bleed. I guess it's just
part of learning to become a mom, worrying
about everything that happens. But even
though I was convinced several times that
there was something horribly wrong, there
never has been, and my baby is kicking and
squirming around in there letting me know
he's doing just fine! Hang in there!
It gets easier!
Miranda
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christine
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Aug 2003 Posts: 5 Location: pennsylvania
Posted: 08-14-03 16:45pm
Hey thanks miranda....Yes everything was
fine I went to the drs yesterday and heard
that lil heartbeat again and it just made
everything a lil better....I just cannot
wait for him/her to start moving and
kicking so I know there really is
something in there..We have been trying
for 3yrs and its just so hard to believe
it finially has happended..Thanks for your
response
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B
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2003 Posts: 3 Location: florida
Not Ready And Scared Posted: 08-14-03 16:56pm
I recently just found out that I was
pregnant. I am not married and not even
out of college yet. I have a serious
relationship and he says he will be behind
me 110% with whatever I want to do. I
really think I want to do this, but am
completely lost and scared. I don't know
what to do next. I went to a clinic and
they were not any help at all. They
basically told me that I was pregnant and
sent me on my way not knowing any answers
to my questions. This just left me even
more scared and doubtful that I can do
this. If anyone can give me some advice
on what to do next or how to start this
change the right way I would appreciate
it. I just need someone to give me some
advice. Thank you.
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christine
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Aug 2003 Posts: 5 Location: pennsylvania
to Not Ready And Scared Posted: 08-14-03 17:11pm
Congrats to you.....Im 30 yrs old,
married, and still scared and this is only
my first and I swore I was ready to be a
mom but now that it has happened im not so
sure im ready...Im delighted to be
pregnant dont get me wrong but I think
these are all normal feelings you are
going through,,,,when I found out I made
an appt w/ an ob , made a list of all my
questions and concerns so when I went to
the appt I didnt forget to ask him
anything....U want to get there as soon as
u can so u can get started on your
prenatal vitamins and so forth.....Im not
too good on giving advice but im a good
listener if ya need to talk
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Re: Not Ready And Scared Posted: 08-14-03 22:45pm
b
wrote:
i recently just found out
that I was pregnant. I am not married
and not even out of college yet. I have
a serious relationship and he says he will
be behind me 110% with whatever I want to
do. I really think I want to do this,
but am completely lost and scared. I
don't know what to do next. I went to a
clinic and they were not any help at all.
They basically told me that I was
pregnant and sent me on my way not knowing
any answers to my questions. This just
left me even more scared and doubtful that
I can do this. If anyone can give me
some advice on what to do next or how to
start this change the right way I would
appreciate it. I just need someone to
give me some advice. Thank
you.
ok, when u go to the doctor, do you ask
him questions or u wait till he tells you
things? Becoz that's very important,
asking questions makes u more released and
makes u look very educated and went there
prepared.
But u have asked questions and they did
not answer them? Well that means u need
to change doctor! Fast!
U know? U are lucky that ur bf seemed to
be helping u and supporting u, and also u
know that u wanna keep this baby, coz alot
of girls dont even know what to do. So
now, u just need to focus on what u want
to do and how to make it work, dont worry.
:p
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Re: 1st Time Pregnancy Worries Posted: 08-14-03 22:48pm
christine
wrote:
hello I have already written
this but its my first time here and dont
think I posted in the pregnancy
forum...Anyway im 30yrs old and just
starting ym 4th month ....I cannot stop
thinking something is wrong in my
pregnancy I just dont feel pregnant
anymore....Im very excited that im
finially pregnant but cannot shke this
feeling ...I heard the babys heartbeat
last month and it was perfect but I had an
extremly stressful month and just havent
felt right....I go to the drs again this
wed. 8/13 and am just terrified the dr
is gonna tell me something horrible....I
try not to think about it but cannot shake
this feeling....Everytime I pee I get a
stabbing feeling in the lower left side, I
started a prescription for a bladder
infection but wont know for 3-5 days if I
have one.....Am I just being paranoid or
what...............Anyone
:
it's normal for pregnant women to have
uti's or even virginal infection, but it's
also not good! And I hope u will be ok
soon!
Being pregnant and finally having
something u have been waiting for 3 years
is woderful, and I am so happy for you, so
since u already got what u want, why dont
u relax and let life takes u where u will
be.
It's gonna be a wonderful journey!
Enjoy!
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jessicalynn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 68 Location: oregon
Yeh, Posted: 08-15-03 00:52am
I went to the doc and when I found out I
was preg they were no help I had to docs
helpin me out, and they told me all kinds
off kool stuff, like how far along I was
and when im due and got me goin on
prenatel vitamins, and all that stuff,
than came the question from them any
questions? And of course I was foll of
questions, I asked them a few questions
and not one did they answer um yeh I think
thats normal im not sure, and yeh I am
sure, lol it was like that to every
question, not one person could answer any
question I had, it was not kool there docs
right they should know stuff right well
they didnt and it was not kool, thats why
I came to this sight to talk to people who
are preg to, man seems u all know more
than docs, so tell I find another doc I
will just keep comin here for my answers,
jess,
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Steph17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Sep 2003 Posts: 3 Location: Liverpool, England
Posted: 09-26-03 13:21pm
Hi I was wondering if someone can help me
sort my head out I am only 17 and found
out I am pregnant on the 18th september,
but I keep getting pains on my lower right
hand side and some strange white/brown
discharge, does this mean iam loosing my
baby
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-26-03 13:38pm
You might be spotting but you should call
your doctor and find out. Call soon too.
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Farah
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 201
Posted: 10-03-03 23:12pm
A lot of times you will have bleeding in
the manner you described, particularly at
this stage. This kind of bleeding is
usually old blood due to the egg
implanting in the uterus.
Bleeding is always something to report to
your Dr. Though, you will want to let
your Dr. Know. Bleeding does not always
mean something bad though, don't worry.
Just find out for sure to put your mind at
ease.
jess,