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Loved By You
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Naples, Fl
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My Boyfriend And I
Posted: 01-23-06 18:51pm
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I know it might seem silly but i’m
really concerned about a certain thing
with my boyfriend and me. See he wants to
try having annal sex and i’m really not
so sure I know how that works. I’ve
never done it like that before. Is it
going to hurt? Should I use something?
Can I get something from it? Please help
me out! I’m really stressed out!!!
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TaraJay
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 14 Location: WA
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the Dreaded Ask.........lol
Posted: 01-23-06 22:57pm
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Well I have done it twice. I suggest usin
a condom or a s**t load of lube. It can b
rele painful so my suggestion is do not
tense!! That makes it even worse. It
feels strange at first but if its too
uncomfortable then tell him uve had
enuf.Lately ive jus given up tryin wit my
new partner of four months. He ast me n I
sed yes not remeberin he had a rather
unsusually large penis so I dnt think that
will b our preferred sexual contact at all
ne more! U can get somethin from it if ur
not thinkin about where it is or stressin
about it...................Hope I was of
some help
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babykitty23
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Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-24-06 01:05am
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I've done it a few times with my husband.
I hate it, it sucks, there's no pleasure
for women with anal sex (atleast most of
us.) it feels like you're taking a big
caca, and you feel as if you could caca
all over the guy any minute. It's not
pleasant. It hurts, makes you bleed, and
makes your problem look horrid.
But, if you're like me and like to try new
things, and your man wants to try it, go
for it, just don't expect anything
special, atleast not anything special in a
good way.
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teach486
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 276 Location: US
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Posted: 01-24-06 07:15am
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There are a few other threads about anal
sex here, and in the men's sexual health
forum, that explain in more detail how to
go about it. I enjoy it occasionally,
especially when my clitoris is stimulated
at the same time, which leads to a
different wonderful climax.
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Loved By You
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Naples, Fl
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Thank You!
Posted: 01-24-06 08:52am
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You have all been very helpfull. Yes I
like to try new things and so does my
partner, but at the same time we have no
idea how it works. However I really have
to wonder what a guy has to say about it?
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juicy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2006 Posts: 18 Location: birmingham
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Posted: 01-27-06 06:17am
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I know this sounds bad of me but I have to
admire u ladies because the only way I
would do that is if my partner let me
stick a vibrator in his ass 1st.
The thing I feel us ladies need to
remember that mean hv2 feel some pain
too.No pain no gain.
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Loved By You
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Naples, Fl
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Posted: 01-31-06 07:34am
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Lol!!!!! That's how I felt too, but trust
me with how curious men are now-a-days we
have to be careful.
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Crazyness24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2006 Posts: 179 Location: Jersey
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Posted: 02-01-06 12:12pm
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I did it once with my boyfriend when I was
drunk and ofcourse when your drunk your
more open to things, it didnt hurt me that
much but I did have to go to the bathroom
right after! Try it maybe you should have
acouple drinks first :lol:
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Loved By You
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Naples, Fl
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Posted: 02-01-06 13:33pm
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Lol!!! I'm really considering drinking
first, if not finding some kind of lub
that'll nub it.
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Crazyness24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2006 Posts: 179 Location: Jersey
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Posted: 02-01-06 13:46pm
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Lol I reccomend lub also I was so drunk I
dont know if we even used any lol good
luck!
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bitsy690
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2006 Posts: 43 Location: Illinois
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Posted: 02-04-06 15:33pm
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I do it occassionally. You have to be
relaxed. It can feel really good but
only if you are into it. Sometimes I
have had to stop him because it started to
hurt. I guess it just depends.
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Taara
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2006 Posts: 3
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Posted: 02-05-06 01:50am
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I find no pleasure in anal sex and I guess
its not an option cause my boyfriend says
it make him want to vomit. Lol
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juicy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2006 Posts: 18 Location: birmingham
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Posted: 02-07-06 07:09am
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I have 2 ask, doesnt it make you sh*t
alot?
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Taara
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2006 Posts: 3
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Posted: 02-08-06 10:49am
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My first and last time that I had anal sex
it made my rectum expand and I had a hard
time trying to hold my bows. Lol it's not
the best form of sex!
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sham90
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2006 Posts: 1 Location: barbados
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Posted: 02-09-06 14:38pm
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Its dirty I dont think u should do it
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teach486
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 276 Location: US
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