I know it might seem silly but iâm really concerned about a certain thing with my boyfriend and me. See he wants to try having annal sex and iâm really not so sure I know how that works. Iâve never done it like that before. Is it going to hurt? Should I use something? Can I get something from it? Please help me out! Iâm really stressed out!!!
Well I have done it twice. I suggest usin a condom or a s**t load of lube. It can b rele painful so my suggestion is do not tense!! That makes it even worse. It feels strange at first but if its too uncomfortable then tell him uve had enuf.Lately ive jus given up tryin wit my new partner of four months. He ast me n I sed yes not remeberin he had a rather unsusually large penis so I dnt think that will b our preferred sexual contact at all ne more! U can get somethin from it if ur not thinkin about where it is or stressin about it...................Hope I was of some help
I've done it a few times with my husband. I hate it, it sucks, there's no pleasure for women with anal sex (atleast most of us.) it feels like you're taking a big crap, and you feel as if you could crap all over the guy any minute. It's not pleasant. It hurts, makes you bleed, and makes your !**@! look horrid.
But, if you're like me and like to try new things, and your man wants to try it, go for it, just don't expect anything special, atleast not anything special in a good way.
There are a few other threads about anal sex here, and in the men's sexual health forum, that explain in more detail how to go about it. I enjoy it occasionally, especially when my clitoris is stimulated at the same time, which leads to a different wonderful climax.
I did it once with my boyfriend when I was drunk and ofcourse when your drunk your more open to things, it didnt hurt me that much but I did have to go to the bathroom right after! Try it maybe you should have acouple drinks first :lol: