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Q: I Need Help

asked by: Jessika Adriana on December 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Oh girls, I am in a huge mess. I just don’t know what to do. About a month ago when austin and I started making love again, the condom broke. I figured that it would be fine because I thought my cycle would be the same as it was before I got pregnant with cheyenne. Since I thought that was the case, the condom broke during my least fertile time (i thought) and I didn’t make a huge deal I was like everything will be fine. Even after I began getting nauseous, feeling tired and hungry all the time about a week ago I chalked it up to hormones and the stress of christmas and my mom’s and seana’s pregnancy. Yesterday after seana updated you guys she mentioned that a few of you girls thought I might be preg and that she was thinking the same thing. I shrugged it off. This morning the nausea was really bad when I was talking to jen and sami so seana gave me a test and told me to take it. When I took the test it was just to ease her mind, I didn’t think I would get the results I did. How in the world can I do this? I mean we are just getting comfortable with the bills and schedules and now this. I just don’t know how I can do it. Man.. Any advice right now would help…a lot!

Much love
-jessika-

Replies(18)

CrombieChic16

replied on December 27th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Jess!

I haven't talked to you in ages! So wait, are you saying you took the hpt and it came back positive? If you're preggo, we'll be preggo together! I got a blood test on monday and it was confirmed that i'm carrying a little angel inside of me! I'm ecstatic, but I have a feeling you're not ready for another one, especially being on your own with austin and chey. Give me some more info so I can help you out....Does your mom know what's going on? If so what did she say? Are both you and austin bringing in a steady income? I hope I can help you out as much as I can!

Let me know!

Much love,
vanessa

Jessika Adriana

replied on December 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Nessa your pregnant too? When did you lose your virginity sweetie?? I am so glad that you are happy! Yes both austin and I are working and we make great money its just I dunno I think I am being a big baby, but I don't know if I can handle another infant, ya know? So yes I am pregnant again. Man does that sound weird. Are you on yahoo right now maybe we can talk?

Much love
-jess-

CrombieChic16

replied on December 27th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Yea can you believe it? It's kinda weird though, because I didn't get preg from having sex technically...Or I should say I didnt get preg from losing my virginity...We were fooling around a couple times and had "dry sex" without a condom on and there was visible precum and he had gone inside of me, just in the tip, so obviously it was enough to get the job done! I actually "lost it" christmas night, it was such a romantic night, we both told our parents and talked with them for a while and we ended up spending the night together, and thats when I gave it to him....I dont regret a thing and can't wait to be a mommy....I'm shocked that you're pregnant again, but so happy for you! I know you can do it, you can do anything because you're such a strong woman! Does austin know yet? I dont have yahoo, but im on aol right now...I think im just as nervous and scared as you are right now so that would be cool to talk about it together!

Much love,
vanessa

Mommy_2_b

replied on December 27th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Jess! We havent heard from you in so long! It'll be ok sweetie everything will work out fine in the end. God never gives you to anything you cant handle and your strong we all know how strong you are you held this place together for so long!! We love you jess and we'll be behind you 100% of the way!!!
Much love melissa, jake, chastity and joshua
(lol im startin to feel bad for josh he always gets put at the end lol)

sparklypixie12

replied on December 27th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Oh my god jess! I knew u were gonna b when seana sed u werent well! Im quite shocked! How far gone r u? Plz tell me ur not thinkin of having this little one cos it seems that its so meant 2 b & ur such a gr8 mommy
liz x

Jessika Adriana

replied on December 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Hey girls, sorry I haven't been on in forever, I have missed you all sooo terribly! Melissa you picked wonderful names for your little angels! Liz, thanks for the support and the kind words! I would never have an abortion, I couldn't live with the guilt of killing my child. Austin doesn't know yet, only seana and cheyenne! Lol I am telling him tonight. I went to the store and got this shirt for cheyenne that says I am gonna be a big sister! Its about a million sizes too big cause they smallest I saw was 2t lol. So I put her in that and when austin gets home I am gonna have dinner ready, really romantic and then I am gonna have seana bring chey in wearing it! Does that sound like a good way to tell him? Ahhh I am stilling shaking! Lol

much love
-jess-
how is everyone else doing? Any new babies? Any new pregnancies other than nessa's?(i am soooooooooo happy for you sweetie!)

Darling

replied on December 27th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Aww jess i'm so happy for you!!! No doubt it will be difficult for some time but it will be worth it honey, it really will. How have you been doing?? How is cheyenne?? Wow I wish I could get pregnant as easy as you did! Lol well please keep us updated and if you ever need anything dont hesistate to call/email me!
Love
tanya
p.S. I'm actually trying to have a baby now so wish me luck!

Jessika Adriana

replied on December 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Hey tanya! I have been doing pretty well! Cheyenne is doing wonderfully too! She is getting so big and beautiful! Laughing

i'll tell ya what sweetie, how about you take all my fertility for the next 6 years? Wink

I will keep my fingers crossed that you get a little bundle of joy! You deserve it!

Much love
-jessika-

smith8500

replied on December 27th, 2003

Especially eHealthy

Jessika

I say congrats with all honesty, but I do understand how you could be a little scared. I don't understand, why didn't you get on bc right after chey? Well, jess, I know you and austin can do it. You both will be wonderful parents to chey and to this new baby too. Please, please keep us posted. Did you get my message I left on your answering machine a few weeks back?
Love,
chanda

Jessika Adriana

replied on December 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Hey chanda, I didn't get on b/c right away because I was breastfeeding chey and still am. Thanks for being so sweet and giving me so much support! I didn't get a message, was it before or after I moved?

Much love
-jess-

smith8500

replied on December 27th, 2003

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Are you on yahoo mess?

Jessika Adriana

replied on December 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Not yet, let me get on!

smith8500

replied on December 27th, 2003

Especially eHealthy

Hey

What happened girl?

Jessika Adriana

replied on December 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Yahoo froze and won't let me back on! I have to run out to the store, maybe we can talk more later?

Much love
-jessika-

smith8500

replied on December 27th, 2003

Especially eHealthy

Jess

Hey, well nikki and I wanted to see if we can have your house addy to send gifts for x-mas. Just pm me and I swear not to let it go any furthur. Or try to call me
love,
chanda

sparklypixie12

replied on December 27th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Jess-u r fantastic girl! Im so happy that ur gonna have 2 little uns so close in age!! I was 4months old when my mom gt pregnant again with my sister & she did gr8.I know the circumstances r kinda different (!) but this baby is so meant 2 b 4 u so go 4 it-ur gonna have such a lovely little family!! Thats such a gr8 idea 4 telling austin-i bet he'll b delighted!
Plz get back on here as soon as possbile 2 let us know
god bless
liz x

Mommy_2_b

replied on December 28th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

What is ur problem girl? Mad

jess is a wonderful mother!

Yazmine

replied on December 28th, 2003

Experienced User

Jess!!!

Girl we missed u!!!
I know ur a lil scared bout being pregnant again but ur such a strong woman I know u can make it.....We all belive in u all u have 2 do is belive in ur self...U r such an inspiration 2 young pregnant woman and teens...Keep us all updated!!!
Luv
yaz

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