Looks like you have a complicated situation. I was in a similar situation about 2 yrs ago. My friend and I have been best friends for over 10 yrs, he was the only male friend that I trusted and was really really close to. I loved him like a friend very deeply. Then, one day (just out of the blue) the same thing happened to us, we made out (no hand job). I also started having feelings for him cuz I knew him very well and I knew we were compatable in many ways. We talked about what happened and decided that we will give it a shot. Honestly, I was scared, we were very close and all but I was scared that our love relationship will destroy our freindship that we have built over the years. We were seeing each other for about 7 months and it was wonderful and then problems started. So we decided t split up, now we are friends but its not the same as before. So I was broken hearted in two ways, not only losing a bf but also a very close friend. They say love is better when it stems out of friendship and I agree with this 100% but what if it doesnt work out for the two of you? Are you willing to lose your best friend too? Have a good talk with your friend and see what both of you want from each other (in the long run), I am sure you'll resovle this dillema. Good luck and keep us posted.

Hey well we talked aboput it, and we decided to give it a shot. He's coming over friday night to watch a movie, so we'll see whast happens I guess!

Glad to hear that and good luck.