Ok well here I go... Me and this guy have
been very very good friends all our lives.
He's always been my best friend. Then
one night, we just started making out and
everything, and I gave him a hand job.
After that, I really started liking him as
more of a friend, but he didn't feel the
same way. He called me and told me that
we could never ever be anything moe than
friends, but then an hour later, he would
call me again and tell me he loved me.
I'm so confused because it's like he's two
different people. Sometimes, he'll want
to get together with me, while other times
he just wants to be friends and everytime
he breaks my heart, but i'm stupid and
keep going back for more. It just kills
me because he has broken my heart so many
times and I don't know if I should take
him back.
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hurt22
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2006 Posts: 8
Hi Brittany Posted: 01-22-06 21:50pm
Looks like you have a complicated
situation. I was in a similar situation
about 2 yrs ago. My friend and I have
been best friends for over 10 yrs, he was
the only male friend that I trusted and
was really really close to. I loved him
like a friend very deeply. Then, one day
(just out of the blue) the same thing
happened to us, we made out (no hand job).
I also started having feelings for him
cuz I knew him very well and I knew we
were compatable in many ways. We talked
about what happened and decided that we
will give it a shot. Honestly, I was
scared, we were very close and all but I
was scared that our love relationship will
destroy our freindship that we have built
over the years. We were seeing each
other for about 7 months and it was
wonderful and then problems started. So
we decided t split up, now we are friends
but its not the same as before. So I was
broken hearted in two ways, not only
losing a bf but also a very close friend.
They say love is better when it stems out
of friendship and I agree with this 100%
but what if it doesnt work out for the two
of you? Are you willing to lose your best
friend too? Have a good talk with your
friend and see what both of you want from
each other (in the long run), I am sure
you'll resovle this dillema. Good luck
and keep us posted.
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brittany_163
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2005 Posts: 37
Posted: 01-26-06 16:36pm
Hey well we talked aboput it, and we
decided to give it a shot. He's coming
over friday night to watch a movie, so
we'll see whast happens I guess!
