Is anyone's parents still ragging on them
for being pregnant..Right now I live with
my grandma and shes always telling me how
im messing up my life...How do you ignore
this and how do you explain that keeping
the child is your decision.!I just dont
know how to shut her up!..Im having this
baby so why cant she just be
supportive?..I know its sad to see this
happen to a teen ,but what about my
beliefs why try to change my beliefs..?
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Re: Anyone Posted: 01-22-06 17:06pm
dejanee
wrote:
is anyone's parents still
ragging on them for being pregnant..Right
now I live with my grandma and shes always
telling me how im messing up my life...How
do you ignore this and how do you explain
that keeping the child is your decision.!I
just dont know how to shut her up!..Im
having this baby so why cant she just be
supportive?..I know its sad to see this
happen to a teen ,but what about my
beliefs why try to change my
beliefs..?
well once my family found out ...They were
disappointed at first and then like 2 days
afterwards they were all
excited...Although deep inside I knew they
thought god she is messing up...I never
considered abortion an option...I wanted
my baby also..Now he is 6 months and the
best thing that has ever happened to
me...I would just sit down with her and
tell her how you feel about the whole
situation..She probably is just scared for
your well-being...Its going to be a long
road and maybe she thinks you cant take it
...But maybe talking it out and making a
compromise between what will happen once
you have the baby will make her more
comfortable with your decision...
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2129 Location: uk
Posted: 01-23-06 15:23pm
I try to stay away from mine because they
are very upset about it, I feel like they
cant even look straight at me because im
pregnant. So I try to stay clear as much
as I can, otherwise I get upset, they dont
want to talk about it just pretend its not
happening I guess. If they do say
something its hurtful comments so keep the
conversation subject off yourself as much
as possible when you talk to her. Once
the baby arrives it will be completely
different I think :-)
