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Q: Needing treatment

asked by: ladyluck13 on January 22nd, 2006

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Hi my names christina

i'm 25 years old going on 26 in march. Anyway i'm so confused as what to do with my fiance. He and I are always (50%) fighting, sometimes they get scary, violent, but no hitting though, but other times they are somewhat mild. He seems to me to be very controlling and jealous yet because he seems this way towards me I notce I purposly stay out at for most of the nights, sometimes even all night till early morning. Now what respectable woman stays out on the streets knowing her man's at home waiting? That would be one of the many questions my fiance would ask me when I would get home. He drills me wanting to know where I went with who and what times and etc. Anyway I love him and I know I need to see a shrink get on meds and try to live a normal life. But see right now i'm currently been in and out of jail and no job and taking care of my grandfather plus my drivers license has also been suspended because of reckless driving. But to the point of my question is does any one think he has the right to do this to me regardless i'm bipolar or not, which I am, but isn't it wrong I wrong? Is because he just doesn't understand my conditions? Remember if anyone reading this understands what an old skool, veternano, sureno is well thats my fiance. My mind is racing right now so if it seems I rambled on with no point and you no clue what I was talking about, let me know.
Thank you,
christine :shock: :cry: :?

Replies(2)

brenlora

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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Bipolar?

I think you are just confused, worried because you are arguing alot of the time, taking care of your grandfather and have some other issues that are rather significant that need to be dealt with. So do all of them 1 by 1 as you can. You have to work this arguing thing out with your boy friend. Do you want your whole life to be that way? It will be if you both don't sit down, talkabout what the issues are being nice towards each other, and just learn how to talk instead of arguing and yelling. I think that is the reason you stay out all night is because you don't want to have to deal with the nonscence of the arguments. You are taking care of your grandfather, the care giver (you) needs support in canada it is the ccac that you call and you can get the help you need so you can maintain some balance. Do you want the jail, no job life style only you can make that change and it is a decision you have to make and there are programs for you for that too. 25 years ago you are living my life except for the jail life style the fighting I realized would never end he enjoyed it too much and if he has touched you once he will touch you again. If you are right by your cpu so am i. I hope this has been a help. I am new to this too but there must be a room to talk in. Good luck.

LeanneShaw

replied on January 30th, 2006

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It sounds like ptsd (post traumatic stress disorder) or personality disorder is coupled with ur bi-polar. I to was in an unhealthy relationship and the best thing I did was leave and meet a new guy who treats me like a princess. I no longer wake up with that knot in my stomach and surprisingly all my physical health problems have cleared up. Its amazing what effect stress has on the body. Why not try this website to rule at least one of the 2 out Personality100.Com.

Good luck

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