Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 123 Location: Arizona, USA
Jealousy During Pregnancy Posted: 01-22-06 06:11am
Okay lately i've been getting extremely
jealous with my fiance, he can't even look
at another girl without me going crazy,
although it seems like he cant keep his
eyes every other girl except me.. I also
have been feeling very insecure. I really
hope this is due to all my hormones going
crazy and once I have my baby everything
will be okay. Gosh I hope i'm not crazy..
Please tell me i'm not the only one going
through this..
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teach486
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 276 Location: US
Posted: 01-22-06 10:51am
I have been dealing with this one, too.
Not being 120 pounds, or less, I had a
poor body image before anyway. Being
pregnant doesn't help that at all. Like I
said in the fat blimp post, my hubby
always makes sure to tell me how beautiful
I am to him. That helps a little, but I
still feel great jealousy when I catch him
looking at other women passing by who I
feel are much prettier.
I just wish he would only look at me. I
very very seldom even look at other men
and think, "wow! He is hot!, " or "wow!
What a nice ass!", etc. . In a way I
guess that makes me feel as if I am being
disloyal to my husband.
I guess that he will continue to always
look, though, because it is only human
nature. It isn't that I doubt he loves
me. I know he does. So, I just try to do
my best to hide my insecurities in this
area, but try as I might I still slip
occasionally with a comment to him.
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Mommi2Bee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 123 Location: Arizona, USA
Posted: 01-22-06 13:30pm
Thanks....... I feel so much better now
that I know i'm not crazy and its probably
just my hormones..
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Sarah1978
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 123 Location: NZ
Posted: 01-22-06 15:44pm
If you are crazy then you aren't the only
one. Even though my hubby still tells me
how good I look, I turn into a green eyed
monster when he looks at another women.
Even though I am loving being pregnant and
getting quite attached to my bump I can't
imagine me still looking sexy to him!
Lol!!! Especially when I get stuck on the
couch/bed/floor etc and have to roll off
it or flounder around like a beached whale
(anything but gracefull). :-)
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 01-22-06 16:01pm
I have always thought that the day that we
all stop looking is the day we all will be
dead! Don't forget, you are human too!
Look on, it is our hormones and hormones
rage more when we are pregnant and do not
be insecure about it, just kind of chuckle
about it.
Good luck!
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 752 Location: :( N.O. Evacuee now in TEXAS
Posted: 01-23-06 05:46am
Hahahaha I was pretty jealous b4 I got
pregnant. So I can relate either way. Im
pretty sure its just your hormones tho.
Explain it to ur fiance and yall talk
about it and let him know how he's making
you feel.
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TaraJay
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 14 Location: WA
Its a Male Thing Posted: 01-23-06 09:23am
Hey I have th exact same issue.........I
feeel like my boyfriend is lookin at
everyone except me some of the time but I
explained it to him n once it was off my
chest I felt like the only one he was
lookin at was me. Telling them can rele
help the situation trust me. But wat do u
do if ur boyfriend was tellin his mates a
story and called u his x's name?.....
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 752 Location: :( N.O. Evacuee now in TEXAS
Posted: 01-23-06 10:02am
I'd kill him !!! Thats all there is to
that one...Lol
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
Posted: 01-23-06 11:09am
My hubby and I have a wonderful
relationship....I am not very jelous
(never have been)....I have a little hump
now even at only 10 weeks, he can't keep
his hands off of it (even in public). I
know he looks and even makes coments but
the way he treats me I know that I have no
reason to get jelous. We have been thru
a lot together and I know that is more
than a fake blonde with big huge boobs.
