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Q: Can Anyone Help?

asked by: Hopeless_Ox_Dymes on January 21st, 2006

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Ok...I know this is a weird long story but please read...4 days ago I was babysitting at my neighbors house when the lady I was babysitting for daughters boyfriend came over...They had gotten into a fight and he seemed agravated....He just grabbed me and started kissing me then he pulled me into the next room and started taking my clothes off... I did tell him no but he didnt seem to care what I thought about it we had sex and didnt use any protection...And now I dont know what to do...I know its to early to tell if I would be pregnant or not...But I dont know if thats considered rape considering he's 24 and I told him no?...I dont know if I should tell anyone or keep it to myself and wait and see what happens?...I just really confused about the whole thing... Does anyone have any advise or did I come to the wrong board?

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yellow ribbon

replied on January 21st, 2006

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Thats definately rape if you said no (and meant it) report the health questions so he can't do it again. As for pregnancy its still to early to tell you gotta wait like 10 more days. Really sorry that happened to you.

~rubmybuddahbelly~

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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Ummmm I belive it could be rape but it dosent seem like you tried to hard to make him stop either. Im not trying to be rude or say anything but it seems odd. You need to tell his wife or girlfriend about whats going on and let them work that out and you tell your parents or something. Thats pretty crazy you dont need to go back there either

Hopeless_Ox_Dymes

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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Your right I didn't try to hard to stop him...I did tell him I didnt want to..I was scared tho..Alone in a strange house with no phone and a 4 year old sleeping in the next room...I thought if I fought him he would hurt me...So I didnt and he left afterward...I feel like totally caca and cant help thinking im the one to blame...

~rubmybuddahbelly~

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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Dont make your self feel bad... I wasnt trying to degrade you or anything like that... But you should really tell someone and if u need anything im here girl... U can hit me up when ever... Do u have aim or yahoo... ??

Hopeless_Ox_Dymes

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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Yeh my aim sn is hopeless ox dyme..

Hopeless_Ox_Dymes

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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Do you have one?

~rubmybuddahbelly~

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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Yeah girl... Add me on aim and hit me up when ever.... My name is onliioneluv

~*~Jillian~*~

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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Re: Can Anyone Help?

hopeless_ox_dymes wrote:

ok...I know this is a weird long story but please read...4 days ago I was babysitting at my neighbors house when the lady I was babysitting for daughters boyfriend came over...They had gotten into a fight and he seemed agravated....He just grabbed me and started kissing me then he pulled me into the next room and started taking my clothes off... I did tell him no but he didnt seem to care what I thought about it we had sex and didnt use any protection...And now I dont know what to do...I know its to early to tell if I would be pregnant or not...But I dont know if thats considered rape considering he's 24 and I told him no?...I dont know if I should tell anyone or keep it to myself and wait and see what happens?...I just really confused about the whole thing... Does anyone have any advise or did I come to the wrong board?

i think the best thing to do would be tell your parents first...Because you need someone thats a adult to help you with this..Because if you were to go and tell his girlfriend/wife ...They probably wouldnt believe you ..And if your parents are involved im sure the problem will be solved much faster..Im really sorry to hear that this happened to you ..And I would also not babysit there anymore ..Seems like a bad place for children/teens ...

Hopeless_Ox_Dymes

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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I know I should tell my mom but I dont think I can...I dont want her to know that it happened...And for telling his girlfriend she would blame me...She not exactly the most understanding person...I guess you guys have to know these people to understand there very cold hearted people and really wouldn't care...And its not like I can take it to court or anything because he has 4 young kids and another due in may and I dont want to know that im the one that took there father away from them...

chrissy721

replied on January 22nd, 2006

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hopeless_ox_dymes wrote:

i know I should tell my mom but I dont think I can...I dont want her to know that it happened...And for telling his girlfriend she would blame me...She not exactly the most understanding person...I guess you guys have to know these people to understand there very cold hearted people and really wouldn't care...And its not like I can take it to court or anything because he has 4 young kids and another due in may and I dont want to know that im the one that took there father away from them...

hun,

you may be doing them a favor...This guy could be secretly messing with those kids...And not telling someone could be worse for them....My sister was raped by a guy she was babysitting for...Twice...She didn't tell anyone the first time, but did the second. Turns out he did this to his wife (before marriage, long story, but she's actually retarted (for real retarted) and married the guy cuz she got pregnant. He did it to his kids, (2 kids both under age of 4) his neices who were my sisters age and a friend of hers too. All of them were too scared to come forward until my sister did. It's true that those kids don't have their dad with them right now, but the don't have someone molesting them day after day, hour after hour either.

Carifairy

replied on January 22nd, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

You can still get the morning after pill if you want, it can be taken within 5 days of unprotected intercourse. Planne dparenthood would be able to help.

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