Okay, well it all started when I was 16, I
just simply woke up one day and analyzed
my face more than I usually do, realizing
my left side of my face is more chubby
then my right. And that my right ear
sticks out a little more then the left!
And from then I just literally think about
it everyday, my face is unsymtrical,
however you spell it, it is! I have a
boyfriend, hes been with me for four
years, and hes just like what are you
talking about? Everyone I ask, they lie!
But no, when I see a picture or just my
reflection, I see a completly different
thing then what tell me. And I read a few
peoples post, and I totally understood
them. Like one person said, they cant
part their hair in certain ways without
making their unsymetry so noticable. So
most of the time I have to leave my hair
loose too avoid people looking so hard!
So then my skin breaks out when I have my
hair in my face too much. Ah its
fustrating, and does depress me. I dont
care what people say, I know when people
look at me thats like one thing they
defiently notice. I want to consult a
cosmetic surgen when im older, and see
what advice they'll give me.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 01-21-06 19:45pm
My sister says the same thing about her
face--and I guess I have seen it too when
she was talking about it. But I think
she is beautiful--she is, and all the guys
want her. I said that to say this---i
never notice it on her (unless, like I
said when she mentioned it)
everything on her face on one side, is in
a different place than on the other side.
To her it is totally noticeable, but like
I said, to me I dont even notice. So...I
bet you are obsessing on it, while others
dont even notice it. Hope this helped.
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osweetbugo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2006 Posts: 2 Location: New Jersey
Hey Its Me Posted: 02-06-06 02:44am
I'm surprised someone responded to me!
Thanks for the small advice, I guess
hearing it from another perspective helps.
And I have stopped obsessing over it alot
less, because its true I was just
constantly looking in a mirror, and so on.
No 1's perfect!
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ThisIsNotMe
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2007 Posts: 4
I Have a Simular Problem.. Posted: 08-04-07 14:58pm
the one side of my face is alot diffrent
to the other. somehow.. the jaw line is
diffrent. and my cheekbones dont seem to
match from the side. i ALWAYS take photos
from my best side. and the other,
chubbier... less defined . not as nice
side doesnt see the light of the camera. i
HATE it.. it depresses me... and like the
lady said above other ppl dont notice it..
unless i say.. but like, why should they
notice it? no1 cares about what other ppl
look like. even though, looks arnt
everything.. for the things i want to do
in my life.. looks help ALOT. im definatly
having surgery on my face. i would love it
to b symmetrical. i thought i was the only
one, because im constantly looking at
other ppl, and they ALL have symmetrical
faces. i hate it. But i cant find surgery
anywhere that i need. :O
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bio_muggle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2007 Posts: 2 Location: USA
Re: I Hate My Face Posted: 08-12-07 13:37pm
Hey, im not exactly sure what you mean but
I think I know. If people dont notice it,
then it is a good thing. Remember your
mind, your personality defines who you
really are & you must tell yourself
that you are beautiful. If you have
friends and family who love you this will
be a good opportunity to realize that
looks do not define if the person is
good/bad/loved/unloved.
Perhaps you can try contouring your face
with a darker shade blush. It can create
shadows and may make your face appear
slimmer.
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Kaoriie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 29 Location: ,
Posted: 08-16-07 09:09am
Well people are born this way so you
should be proud!! And don't do any plastic
surgery !! If you do some people might
notice more... i think. I dunno.. But you
should love how you look like and try to
be happy and nice everyday and gradually
you'll look like the princess u were
before!!
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Haychfx
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 2 Location: South London
Oh My Godd! Posted: 08-20-07 16:31pm
The girl who made this post has the exact
same symptoms as me difference being im
a 15 year old lad. My parents say no one
has a symetrical face but to me my face
looks too unsymetrical i
dont know if people realise and dont say
anything to me, or generally dont realise,
but i dont want to bring it up to any of
my mates because then they might start
realising if that makes any sense lol...
ive only had one relationship and she
didnt say anything to me. Not to sound big
headed at all but the side i like (my left
side) i think looks great on the other
hand my right side doesnt. I get the
occasional comment at school from a few
boys, boys that ive known since primary
school and they say im perfect in
everyway.. but perfect is a word that lies
in the eyes of the beholder i guess - but
i dont know whether they're taking the
piss or are being serious. Is this maybe a
form of body dismorphia? i have no idea
but it comforts me knowing that people are
going through what i am x thank you for
making this post xx
difference being im
a 15 year old lad. My parents say no one
has a symetrical face but to me my face
looks too unsymetrical 
i
dont know if people realise and dont say
anything to me, or generally dont realise,
but i dont want to bring it up to any of
my mates because then they might start
realising if that makes any sense lol...
ive only had one relationship and she
didnt say anything to me. Not to sound big
headed at all but the side i like (my left
side) i think looks great on the other
hand my right side doesnt. I get the
occasional comment at school from a few
boys, boys that ive known since primary
school and they say im perfect in
everyway.. but perfect is a word that lies
in the eyes of the beholder i guess - but
i dont know whether they're taking the
piss or are being serious. Is this maybe a
form of body dismorphia? i have no idea
but it comforts me knowing that people are
going through what i am x thank you for
making this post xx