Please read this, im very scared about the fact that I might have an impotence problem, and I dont know much about it so I need some help.
Im 19 years old, and I had the chance to lose my virginity almost a year ago, and it was with a girl I was very attracted to, and when it came time, I couldnt obtain an erection. I asked her to give me oral sex but that didnt do anything for me either. Then, I was getting oral sex from a different girl about a month later, and I did have an erection, but it wasnt as hard as it should be, and I didnt feel myself coming close to orgasm even after about 15 minutes. She said we could have sex so I walked 20 feet across the room to get a condom and when I came back, my erection was gone. Then, it happened again when this girl was trying to give me a handjob, although it was in a very uncomfortable position lying on the ground and she wasnt very good at it. Then, it happenbed for the final time recently, and she was giving me oral sex and nothing happened at all, it wasnt getting hard at all whatsoever.
So, all 4 of these times, I was drinking alcohol. But I wasnt really that drunk, at least not enough to explain these problems. I was pretty attracted to all the girls each time, and they seemed to be good at giving oral sex so I dont think it was that either.
I masturbate about once a day, and I was wondering if that may have anything to do with it, whether I do it too much, or if my penis is used to the perfect stroke of my hand and oral sex isnt vigorous enough to get me hard.
I also am on concerta, which is a pill for add.
I have never had a problem getting an erection during masturbation, so I was also thinking that it might have something to do with me being nervous when im with a girl. I was nervous that first time since I considered the girl "out of my league"...And I never am completely comfortable when I am getting a sexual act performed on me.
So, does anyone have any answers? Would cialis help? Is it very rare for someone so young, only 19, to have this problem, because I thought it was only among older men, around 40 or older.
Thanks so much for any help you can give me.