Hi. I'm new to the forum.

I've recently been having a problem with impotence or so it seems. I'm 25 and I have been holding out to have sex for the right person or whatever. So now that I feel as the time is right, I find myself getting arroused briefly and then for the rest of the night, nothing. Needless to say this is both dissapointing for me and for my partner. I usually masturbate pretty reguarly always to pornography.

This problem goes back about a month when I met with someone from the internet.. Now the first time I was able to achieve an erection without a problem but wasn't able to finish when receiving felatio. (her friend was like waiting in the closet, but I dont know if thats relevent because I never finished around a girl before, which could be another factor) the next time we met we had a few drinks and there was very littlle or no arrousal, next time same thing. So she got very dissapointed and was mad at me(but forgave me) so I see this is possibly being the reason for all this. I have not felt like I have been having any sexual desire at all, where usually I get horny pretty often. The other night I was with someone else whom i'm very fond of and had a great night only to come back and again, was arroused about half way for a short time and then the rest of the night, nothing. If anybody read all this and/or has any suggestions for me, I would greatly appreciate it and if could help me fix this, I would owe them my life.

-frustrated in ny