Attraction is a science. The sweet science.
The biggest tool that you will ever have in life is your subconscious.
Once an idea is driven into your subconcious mind, it will stop at nothing to obtain it. (just be careful if you are bipolar).
It will change your thought process, body language and even the smell that you give off.
Learn to use your subconcious, and you will master anything.
So don't "just be yourself". Be what you make yourself.
Make the effort, and you will all be rewarded.
I promise.
That is all for now.