I think you should seriously think about what you are doing...Maybe its a good thing that you arent pregnant...You are only 17 ...I had a baby at 17 now I am 18 with a 5 month old...Its not the easiest thing in life...You need to have fun while you can..Plus how long have you and this guy been together anyways...Most guys think its all fun and games until that baby is here ...Then they run ..But if you think you are ready then go for it ...Not trying to hold you back ..I just think you need to think about this a little longer it seems like you are jumping into things

Just cuz u seem healthy doesnt mean everything in the repoductive area for one or both of you is healthy you never no u might end up being one of those ppl that need invetro or fertility drugs later in life. For now just keep doing it! There are lots of ppl who dont get it on the first try

No one is ever ready completley to have a baby. Im 17 and im 6 months pregant... And sweetie guys change their mind after its to late for you too... Havent you noticed that most guys have horrible choices of time judgement. I really think you should sit down with your self and think about what your getting into.

Yet again people seem to be hipacritical in here saying guys will leave u and that you are too young just because your still a teenager. Alot of teens get pregnant so face reality people. Some of the people at older ages are even less ready then some teens, some people shouldnt even have kids in my mind if they are drug users of have mental problems that they can pass on. I am 17 almost and for the past 4 months my bf and I have talked about children, we both dont care if it happens so there for he is allowed to finnish in me but not everytime. We know it can take months for healthe couples to have children so we arnt expecting it to happen anytime soon but if it does we will both be standing strong, and I know he will stay because he is a major family guy, and hes a very honest person and responsible. He has a brother/sister from his dad which he dosnt know what sex it is because the woman ran out on his dad and shawn said he couldnt stand it if someone did that to him because if he knew he had a child out there it would just kill him knowing that its out there and he knows nothing about it and cant be there with it. And yeah I guess thats my 2 cents on the matter

Oh mommy...
I agree with you to an extint but when someone asks for another persons point of view then so be it. I'm 17 finally and I got pregnant when I was 16 and it was planned. I also thought that the father was going to be there for me and the baby. He has been so damn wishy washy about it now that its hard to deal with. I understand that there are alot of people older then 21 having kids and not being able to support them but thats by their choice. It's not easy to keep a job and all that at 15 16 and 17 I know i've tried. And plus all the ridicule can be heart wrenching. Before I moved to houston I herd my own doctor call me a little prostitute cause I was only 16 and I had my babys father with me sitting right there. It happens yes no one is saying that it dosent and yes alot of teenagers can support a child. But you dont hear alot of them saying oh it was a piece of cake cause it's not. My advice is just think about it. I can't say anything other then that because I am a soon to be teen mother. With little to no help from the father now. Thats all im saying