Can any of you guys advise me? My partner
is 47 and has had an inactive sex life for
over 20 years as his wife wasnt
interested, neither was his last
girlfriend, he masturbates but finds it
takes twice as long and he has to work
twice as hard to reach orgasm as when he
was younger. He had no probs before his
marriage.
When we try to have sex I can get him
turned on but he loses it as soon as he
tries to enter me, he got viagra from
doctor but twice we've tried it and both
times he got an erection but again he lost
it as soon as we tried intercourse.
I think it may be psychological but could
it be a case of not having proper sex for
so many years? Also he has put on weight
and is unfit.
I am getting quite fed up, he is happy
just to give me oral, which although I
appreciate isnt the same as making love!.
Weve been together 3 months.
Someone suggested a few drinks along with
the viagra but he wont try this as he
reckons alcohol will make it worse. Help
-any advice greatly appreciated.
|
Unavailable
Post temporarily unavailable Posted: 01-21-06 13:45pm
This post is being reviewed and is temporarily unavailable.
czarg
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Posts: 68 Location: Lagos-Nigeria
Do Work Outs. Posted: 01-22-06 09:15am
Let him work out more and get some energy.
Put his mind off sex and more on
exercises. He will improve.
I suppose so.
|
cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
Posted: 01-22-06 13:22pm
A good diet (like czarg said) and exercise
will always help...
|
Lok1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2006 Posts: 1
Re: My Boyfriend Is Impotent Posted: 01-28-06 09:10am
I have exactly the same problem. Sex is
not nearly enjoyable as before, and it is
much more difficult for me.
I still have the urge to masturbate, but
erections are difficult to maintain and
sexual stimulation like pornography
doesn't turn me on as much as it used
to.
I've had only 2 days of good sex in the
past few months, when there was a sexual
feeling 'breakthrough'.
I have put on a lot of weight over the
past year too. I'm about 2 and half
stones heavier than last year. So that
would seem to be the common factor. But
would losing weight guarantee success?
|
ergit
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 01-28-06 11:42am
20 years??? How do u live man??
|
rob_uk
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 34 Location: uk
Posted: 01-29-06 15:47pm
Ergit, i've been reading through these
posts and im wondering why you come on
here? All you seem to do is make witty
comments about peoples serious health
problems. Think about what people might
be going through before you make such
comments. No one would wish an illness on
you but it may take that for you to
realise that comments like yours effect
people when theyre in situations as they
are on this site.
