There is no such thing as add/adhd. Is just doesn't exist in life or death at autopsy, you have bought into the add lie, I do not recommend you take any drugs for "it" either , my daughter has bone marrow failure due to an add drug and may develop leukemia now. You may be slow, your husband may be slow, but your kid could be brillant! Who knows? But he/she could be.

Thier is such this as Add/Adhd. My sister and I both have them. Attenion deficit Disorder is the main disorder and you may or may not have it with hyperactivity. the only differ is one your always on the go(adhd) and the other your not. But both have the symtoms of Add. I dont know if it is a genetic disorder but i do know my sister and I both got these disorders from our parents so it may be possible for you to pass it on.