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Q: Why Is Sex So Important!?!
asked by: TysonH on January 18th, 2006
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Ok, my question for all you couples, or married husbands and wives, etc. Why is sex so important. In many cases, if sex is taken out of a relationship, frustration kicks in, and many marriages or relationships will end in a divorce because of it. I have heard it's not important or leads to divorces but it does. I learned in a psychology class, sex is a primary need of humans. And if sex weren't so important, why are there so many shows tryin to help ppl in struggling relationships with their sex lives? ..Many times couples are too tired, or work different schedules (day and night).And it frustrates them because they aren't having sex. My question, as stated earlier, to all of you is, why is sex so important!? Thanks!
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oh_mommy
replied on January 19th, 2006
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I think sex is important for couples because it shows togeatherness. But when people work differnt sceduals and dont have time I dont think that what makes them get devorced or break up I think it is because they loose touch with eachother because they never see eachother and get to spend time alone.
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katie2020
replied on January 22nd, 2006
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Why Is Sex So Important?
Sex keeps couples together. Sex keeps their relationships growing. They need kids to help their lives grow sometimes.
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czarg
replied on January 23rd, 2006
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It Is God-inplanted.
Sex is a desire plante by od himself. It is the blood of any marriage. You cannot understand it that is why the bible calls the relationship between a man and a woman a mystery.

Without sex marriages will collapse. Even if we leave procreation silent.
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forcegx7
replied on April 26th, 2006
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It's very important because it's a direct reflection of the deeper connections (emotional, spiritual, mental) that couples have or should have. If the sex is bad than typically it's because couples lack a deep enough emotional connection. Having difficult work schedules can be a cause. That's when you should reevaluate your lives & think about what's really important. The money, the job, or the time for relationship or family? Work together to find a better balance then you can refocus on getting that deep connection back which in turn will enhance your sex lives.
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Spirit
replied on April 26th, 2006
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Sex isn't important, it's an extra like..... A chocolate bar or cheesecake or when your favourite team scores a point....It's not the end of the world when you don't get it....But it's great when you do.

Love keeps couples together.......Love helps relationships grow. :)
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forcegx7
replied on April 27th, 2006
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Typically if one feels that having sex or having a good sex life is unimportant, than chances are you haven't experienced having good sex.
If that's the case then you need to backtrack on your relationship & work on establishing a deeper emotional connection
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xashleex
replied on April 27th, 2006
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oh_mommy wrote:
i think sex is important for couples because it shows togeatherness. But when people work differnt sceduals and dont have time I dont think that what makes them get devorced or break up I think it is because they loose touch with eachother because they never see eachother and get to spend time alone.


i agree widt oh mommy sex just shows the couples flames and sparks and widt the divorce thing shes got the right idea its usually becuz they start loosing each others touch n never seeing each other or else they just plan dont feel the same way about each other nemore
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Spirit
replied on April 28th, 2006
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forcegx7 wrote:
typically if one feels that having sex or having a good sex life is unimportant, than chances are you haven't experienced having good sex.

If that's the case then you need to backtrack on your relationship & work on establishing a deeper emotional connection


speak for yourself hon.....Day off today so going to the hotel for what we call "marathon sex". And I know what i'm doing for the weekend.....Me thinks I know what your doing too??!? Try this......

.....Close your eyes and pretend your rolling dice.....Get the picture. :)

there's more to life then getting some, and if your a well rounded person, have other interests and can hold a decent conversation just sex is available to everyone.....On the other hand if your boring and have limited interests, perhaps it's in everyones interests if you remain single. :)
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toocrunkfaya05
replied on May 1st, 2006
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Agree!!
Sorry but I totally agree with sprit sex isnt important but when u do get it its supposed to be great. Sex does not keep a relationship together love does, so to answer ur question from my side no sex is not important being in a loving and caring relationship is.
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forcegx7
replied on May 2nd, 2006
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Right & spirit seem to get defensive to my comments & I think you guys are missing what i'm trying to say. If the loving & the caring isn't really there or as sincere as it should be, than more than likely your sex life with one another will suffer & not be as good because of that. Sex life is a reflection of that. Every aspect of the relationship is as equally as important as the other...The emotional, the mental, the spiritual, & the physical connections. If one suffers or lacks sincerity, the others do as well. You can have sex with someone that you're just physically attracted to & say it was fun, but it doesn't come close to the intensity & passion of having sex with someone that you share all those deep connections with.
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sh5nton
replied on May 3rd, 2006
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forcegx7 wrote:
if the sex is bad than typically it's because couples lack a deep enough emotional connection. .


i disagree, I have an emotional connection with my boyfriend but that doesn't necessarily mean we have a great sex life. Alot of things contribute to not so good sex, one partner may have a low sex drive due to stress at work, a condition or medication. The female may not be able to achieve orgasm due to similiar reasons to the low sex drive. I achieve intimacy even just through sleeping naked with eachother, holding eachother when you just need a hug, or sharing something that you hold special with your partner. We both have a deep attraction to eachother but the sex isn't the primary action that's going to decide whether we are the special 'ones' for eachother.
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