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Q: What's Happened to My Mojo?!
asked by: ED209 on January 18th, 2006
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Got a severe case of the mr.Floppy going on at the moment! Had this problem on & off for about 4 years now (i'm 32 now by the way). Never really saw it as a problem though. I always put it down to one thing or another (to tired, to pissed, to stoned, not in the mood, girl not doing it for me etc) & usually things would sort themselves out in the end. Doesn't seem to be working out like that now though.


Recently i've been seeing a girl who I fancy the pants off! She's very sexual & we've talked about it quite openly since we met & hit it off. But when it came to the crunch ............ Nothing! I got a good erection for about 2 minutes from just kissing & touching. But when we tried to do other things that was the end of that! So frustrating because inside i'm seriously screaming for this girl yet on the outside this obviously isn't coming across!! We've spoke about it & she's cool with it but is encouraging me to deal with it. I obviously want to deal with it as well as she's not going to stay around forever waiting for me to do the business (frankly, I don't blame her!). Booked an appointment to see my gp next week but thought it would be good to share my problem on here as well. As they say, you can't deal with a problem until you face up to it.
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cd998776
replied on January 22nd, 2006
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How often do you masturbate? What's your diet like? Do you exercise? Are you on any medication? Are you under any stress?
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ED209
replied on January 22nd, 2006
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cd998776 wrote:
how often do you masturbate?

every day usually :d

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what's your diet like?

could be better but i've always kept the junk to a minimum. I try to eat well to maximise the benefit of going to the gym. Not much point training hard once/twice a week & then stuffing yourself with crap! Been drinking a lot for the last 6 months or so. I'm trying to cut that right back.

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do you exercise?

i go to the gym once or twice a week. Used to cycle a fair bit (not enough to be saddle sore though!). Need to get back out on the bike again. Went out yesterday for a 45 minute ride. Felt it afterwards so i'm not in as good shape as I used to be.


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are you on any medication?

i used to be on beta blockers following a nightmare time in thailand as a result of a magic mushrrom trip that went badly wrong! But i've not been taking those for over 2 years now! I did read they can cause problems but back then I was still having sex

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are you under any stress?

only because I can't do the business in the sack. Other than that I guess i'm under no more stress than the average person should reasonably expect to deal with.
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cd998776
replied on January 22nd, 2006
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I think it's probably a combination of everything you've mentioned. The medication can take a long time to work its way completely out of your system; daily exercise always seems to help a lot; maybe try cutting back masturbation to 2-4 times a week and see if that helps; the alcohol is going to have a major effect; and worry about the problem is only going to make it worse.
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ED209
replied on January 22nd, 2006
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cd998776 wrote:
and worry about the problem is only going to make it worse.

tell me about it. I've thought about it in just about every sexual encounter for the last 4 or 5 years!! It's getting silly now that's why i'm of to the docs on the morrow. No drinking this week either. I'll have an orange juice in the pub instead of my usuall pint I think (i go to the pub monday & tuesday with mates from college). The drinking is definitely getting a bit much. I'll try & exercise more as well. Maybe when I get the urge to knock one out i'll go for a run instead? Trouble is the girl i've been seing has got me all worked up! Every time I think about her I get horny! We're very open with each other about sex which is why I feel so bad that i've not been able to do the business in bed. We've spoke about the problem & i've told her i'm off to the docs. She's been very understanding & good about things but we both want each toher pretty bad.
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ED209
replied on January 27th, 2006
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Well I had my bloodt test & i've had the results back. The only thing they were concerned about was that my white blood cell count was 'slightly low'. I only spoke to the receptionist & i've not heard from my gp what it's all about. caca myself when looking on the net though - a low white blood cell count could be all sorts of things from bone marrow disease to hiv! :( i've got to have another blood test to re-check white blood cell count in just over a weeks time. Fingers crossed! Suddenly my mojo problem has gone out the window!!
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