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Q: 16 And Pregnant With No Guy In My Life

asked by: pree16 on January 17th, 2006

New User

:cry: hi everyone I think I am about 14 weeks pregnant. I was one of those girls who fell in love with this real bad guy for me. He wasdrug dealer he could not go a day with out his weed. I never thought I will fell in love with a guy like that. I use to do anything for him at all.I will always sneak out of my house just so he can be happy. I will give all the sex he wanted but see I was on ortha evea the patch so I thought it was ok I never got pregnant till oct. When he moved to the other part of town so I would ride the bus just to go and see him so one day I went out with him and one of his other friends and and we went back to his house and me and him and had sex but when he left the room he went to the bathroom and when I was putting on my clothes his friend come in the room and raped my so know I have no idea which one is my baby daddy but I am now not with my ex when I told him the news that I am pregnant he run off to florida so now I do not know what to do now I met this wonderful men but there is a big age thing here I am 16 and he is 26 but I love him and he loves me and we plan on getting married and it is ok between his parents and mine when I hit 18 well write back thank you very much for reading this long topic bye and if any one want to talk on the fone here is my cell phone number 1-630-254-5769 thank u again. :cry: :x

Replies(8)

Surrender

replied on January 17th, 2006

Experienced User

Sounds like you've had a rough go...But i'm sure it will all work out for you. As for this new guy, sounds like he's a pretty good guy, don't let age be a factor, as long as you two really care about eachother...
And just as a ps, you might want to check out the teen preg forum too =)
good luck hun

czarg

replied on January 17th, 2006

Experienced User

Hey. Wake Up Girl.

Dear girl, when I started reading your text, I felt sorry that you fell into such predicament but getting down into yr gist, I felt disappointed.
Don't you think it is too early to think of putting up with someone without sorting out yr pregnancy issue?

Does the new guy know and has he accepted yr pregnancy? Now that your weed-guy has run off, do you now realise it is safer to take life slowly and easy?

Yr entry sounds untrue to me, yet I will just say take things easy please. All the best.

kittylainy

replied on January 18th, 2006

New User

I'm sorry to hear your dillema... One advice I an give u is to be careful, you don't need a man in your life just because you are having a baby. It doesn't seem like you've met this new guy for too long, so just take things easy and make sure he is seriously and honestly good for yourself. This is the perfect time to concentrate on yourself and making sure that you are happy. And this is what you truly want. When you get tied down or overly attached (financially and emotionally) to someone too quickly, there is no regret.

Please take care~

Lysha

replied on January 18th, 2006

New User

I just want you to know I know how you feel. I got pregnant when I was 16. It has been a hard road. But I made it through and you will too. Now my daughter is almost 5yrs old. I don't regret a thing. She changed my life and kinda saved it at the same time. Just know that you will make it through this if you make wise choices. That means not only for you....But your baby too. Good luck!

Kimmeh

replied on January 18th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

If I were you i'd take your celly number out...You never know whocomes onto these sites,and reads this stuff. Better to be safe then sorry.

Ps sorry to hear about your predicament. My man used to smoke pot all the time too so now we are broken up and I haven't talked to him in 4 days. It will get easier.

pree16

replied on January 18th, 2006

New User

Wow thank even thought out everything my boyfriend. Knows everything about me and my ex. He has been there from the start. Age is not a factor whit our love to each other he has brought me and my baby a new house that he lives in now and brought clothes for it. The love of my life name is randy.And for my ex he lives in florida and he cals once in a while adn randy hates him he is coming to visit over the week-end an me and my family and randy is going to talk to him about this whole thing I want him to give up all of his rights and let me and randy live in peace and hermony thank u alll 4 the help we should all keep in touch with this whole thing I will keep everyone up dated thank u

liwikiwi

replied on January 18th, 2006

Experienced User

Good luck, hopefully the loser doesn't put up a fight about giving up his rights....Hope it all goes smoothly
...Do you think he'll give up his rights??

uniquemommy

replied on July 17th, 2008

New User

i was 15 and pregnant when my sons dad left me... i was upset and hurt but now my son is 3 i also have a 2 yr old daughter and a child on the way and i'm 19 and all alone... i work full time and go to college online and my kids are great and have everything that all the other kids there age have cuz i never gave up and when everyone was telling me i couldnt i held my head up and kept going... it can be done

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