Hey, I am on a breast enhancement program called femax and one of the added benefits to the program is an increase to libido, sexual desire, ease of achieving orgasm, and lubrication. You can just buy a product for just the sexual benefits without the breast enhancement which is cheaper and it also improves your hair skin and nails. Or you could just do the breast enhancement and even if you dont want size, everyone needs a little firmness and lift, right? Also another suggestion would be to go to spencers or a headshop and get some sex board games. Those really help.