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Q: How Long Does It Take to Get a Q Answered?
asked by: Dark_Allies on January 17th, 2006
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I see my "ask doctor" topic is locked, I assume until somebody answers my question? I am running out of time here. I am maybe 6 weeks pregnant and if I really am, and it is too late to take one of those pills to end it, it's all over for me. I can't think of a way to have an operation in secret. I can't even get anyone (even registered nurses I know) to tell me if abortion pills are even legal in california. It isn't this hard in canada.

I am in the hopeless stage. Is it really so damn impossible to end a pregnancy and keep it secret? No wonder people end up turning to the streets. That's what I am going to do very soon, I think.
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Sarah1978
replied on January 18th, 2006
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Why don't you try talking to a doctor so they can advise you on whats avaiable.
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casidee
replied on November 30th, 2006
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Youve obviously got a good reason for not wanting the baby and also for wanting to keep your pregnancy a secret.. I recently went through the same thing.. Sort of..... I had unprotected sex with somone who I am not having a relationship with and I have 3 grown up children.... There was no way I could have another baby at my age... I am on my own and I am struggling financially as it is......... When you say a pregnancy operation you mean a termination.... This can be done relatively simple and you could be in and out within a few hours..... Do you work in the day? Just take a day off sick and no one will know youll be home by dinnertime..
Or if you dont work make some excuse to go off for the day ..Visit a friend or shopping for the day... And if your delayed just phone and say youve been delayed... There are many ways around it... Even say your stoping over a friends for the nite..... Nobody likes to be dishonest but
sometimes there truth in the saying 'what they dont know doesnt hurt them' if you have to do it for personal reasons then you just have to do it....... Good luck
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Kia
replied on November 30th, 2006
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This post is almost a year old - I guess she either did or didn't have the baby already
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