I guess i'll get straight to it. I been
talking to this guy and he's cool or
whatever anyways I messed up and slept
with him and now I think i'm pregnant.
1. Because the condom broke
and
2. I had stopped using my birth control
method 2 week before that
(which may not mean much but it don't help
my nerves out any)
all of the signs are there but i'm scared
to take the test to confirm it. I haven't
been to the doctor, I haven't told anybody
about it, and i'm stressing out because
his ex is being a pain in my a**.
He talked to ol gurl about all the drama
she's been starting or whatever which
helped with the stress thing just a little
bit but still.
Anyways I was about to tell him about me
thinking I was pregnant when we was on the
phone a minute ago so I bought up kids and
he was just all like I don't want them, I
don't like kids, and all this other stuff,
so I didn't tell him.
My thing now is do I tell my moms and my
"friend" that I think i'm pregnant or just
wait until I can get the nerves to take
the test (which may not be to soon) to
find out for sure. Because if I am I
don't want to hurt my baby by waiting too
long to see the doctor just because I was
acting like a lil b***h but then again I
don't wanna start any problems or cause
any issues between anybody if i'm not??
So to put it simple.... Do I need to say
something about this or just keep it to
myself
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Angel_Who_Crys
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 181 Location: In The Darkness
Posted: 01-17-06 02:08am
Well sweetie frist off I would take a test
you really will feel much batter when you
know for sure if you are and are not
pregnant. I would also say something to
your mother the sooner you say something
the better you will feel as well.
Im 17 and almost 6months pregnant. It was
in away planned I guees I could say.
Anyways takeing a test was still one of
the hardest things I have ever done in my
life. Its a time were you fined out if
your life is going to change forefver or
not. Telling my mom, well she fliped and
looked like she was going to kill me. But
now she is ok with it and helps me out
alot by buying things I need and what not.
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 752 Location: :( N.O. Evacuee now in TEXAS
Posted: 01-17-06 03:55am
Sweety... Take the test girl. He'll just
have to deal with it if you are pregnant.
Thats something he should have thought of.
It's always possible if u have sex and ur
not on birth control and its even possible
then. And if he wants to be an ass... Do
what I did im only 20 weeks and the child
support papers are already filled out.
Lol.... And if u are .. Girl im here to
talk to if ya feelin down... Lol cause
i've gone threw the same caca with beinf
scared and nervous
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Angel_Who_Crys
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 181 Location: In The Darkness
Posted: 01-17-06 11:40am
If eather of you 2 would like someone to
talk to my msn is
Thanks ya'll, i'm still a lil scared about
the whole situation, but I do feel better.
I'mma try to talk to my moms today but
knowing how I am i'll just get scared when
she walk through the door and just say
forget it
thanks again, I gotta go right now but
i'll most likely be back later, that's if
I tell my moms and she don't kill me
