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Q: Newbie And Need Help
asked by: BWBM on January 17th, 2006
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What's up ya'll?

I guess i'll get straight to it. I been talking to this guy and he's cool or whatever anyways I messed up and slept with him and now I think i'm pregnant.

1. Because the condom broke

and

2. I had stopped using my birth control method 2 week before that
(which may not mean much but it don't help my nerves out any)

all of the signs are there but i'm scared to take the test to confirm it. I haven't been to the doctor, I haven't told anybody about it, and i'm stressing out because his ex is being a pain in my a**.

He talked to ol gurl about all the drama she's been starting or whatever which helped with the stress thing just a little bit but still.

Anyways I was about to tell him about me thinking I was pregnant when we was on the phone a minute ago so I bought up kids and he was just all like I don't want them, I don't like kids, and all this other stuff, so I didn't tell him.

My thing now is do I tell my moms and my "friend" that I think i'm pregnant or just wait until I can get the nerves to take the test (which may not be to soon) to find out for sure. Because if I am I don't want to hurt my baby by waiting too long to see the doctor just because I was acting like a lil b***h but then again I don't wanna start any problems or cause any issues between anybody if i'm not??

So to put it simple.... Do I need to say something about this or just keep it to myself
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Angel_Who_Crys
replied on January 17th, 2006
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Well sweetie frist off I would take a test you really will feel much batter when you know for sure if you are and are not pregnant. I would also say something to your mother the sooner you say something the better you will feel as well.

Im 17 and almost 6months pregnant. It was in away planned I guees I could say. Anyways takeing a test was still one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. Its a time were you fined out if your life is going to change forefver or not. Telling my mom, well she fliped and looked like she was going to kill me. But now she is ok with it and helps me out alot by buying things I need and what not.
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
replied on January 17th, 2006
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Sweety... Take the test girl. He'll just have to deal with it if you are pregnant. Thats something he should have thought of. It's always possible if u have sex and ur not on birth control and its even possible then. And if he wants to be an ass... Do what I did im only 20 weeks and the child support papers are already filled out. Lol.... And if u are .. Girl im here to talk to if ya feelin down... Lol cause i've gone threw the same caca with beinf scared and nervous
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BWBM
replied on January 17th, 2006
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Thanks ya'll, i'm still a lil scared about the whole situation, but I do feel better. I'mma try to talk to my moms today but knowing how I am i'll just get scared when she walk through the door and just say forget it

thanks again, I gotta go right now but i'll most likely be back later, that's if I tell my moms and she don't kill me
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