Hi, I need someone to talk to about my
depression. About 5-6 months ago I had a
miscarriage. It devestated me totally,
and I have been suffering depression which
for a brief time I recovered from, but has
since returned. I am so hormonal. And on
top of that my fiance who I love to death
seems to be pulling away from me. He says
that he loves me and I believe him but I
feel like he hates me or something. I
don't know what I did to make him feel
that way, and I am hurting so bad. I feel
like he doesnt want to be around me
anymore and I just want to die from the
thought of that. I try to do everything I
possibly can to make him happy and I feel
like its not enough. He never says that
or anything and he thanks me when I do
things for him, but I just feel like I am
not good enough for his love or something,
and it hurts. Its like a dagger piercing
my heart. Please, somebody help me. I
want hi to be happy but I dont want to be
hurt in the process. Thanks
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czarg
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Posts: 68 Location: Lagos-Nigeria
Be Strong. Posted: 01-17-06 20:50pm
Britney, please take heart. It is not
easy to cope with emotional problems and
psychological stress at the same time. I
will encourage you to let your b/f know
that yr loss of pregnancy has caused you
much pain and hurt. Tell you how
depressed it makes you feel.
2 nights ago, I sent a text to my friend
telling him I needed encouragement.
Immediately he got it, he has been helping
me get motivated with living and I am
getting along. It works.
Tell yr guy you need to be encouraged.
Tell him you will be there for him
especially when you can be strong to do so
for him. Let him know you have not
stopped being who you are.
