I had an abortion about 5 months ago and
it was the biggest mistake I have ever
made. I regret it every day. I cant
handle it. I am scared though because
the past few periods of mine my stomach
has been getting really bloated about a
week befor each period and it gets bigger
as my period goes by. Ive never gotten
bloated during periods. Is this normal?
I havent been able to get to the doctor
because im afraid. I didnt go to my
check up because I never want to go to
that clinic again because it was horrible
and disgusting. So many girls were in
there all acting casually about getting an
abortion it was gross. The waiting room
was full and crowded with girls. It was
sad. I regret my abortion so much I cant
deal with it.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 01-17-06 16:06pm
Yes, you can get bloated while on your
period but my suggestion would be to get
checked out by the dr as it could be
something else. Are you on b/c? I am
sorry you chose the wrong place or they
chose the wrong place to have the abortion
and you feel it was a big mistake, others
do not feel that way. You can call and
make an appt. With your other ob/gyn
she/he or primary care Dr. They will
probably want to see you and let them know
about your bad experience with the clinic
as you need to vent and move on, abortion,
adoption or carrying on with the pregnancy
is never an easy decision if in doubt, you
did what you did for a reason and it takes
time to heal. We are here for you and
their is help on the out side as well.
Good luck!
Keep us posted! We care!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-17-06 16:46pm
I agree with sandyallen. Despite your
fears, you do need to go get checked out,
especially since you skipped your
check-up!