Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Posts: 4 Location: plymouth ma.
Do U Think We R Moving Too Fast Posted: 01-16-06 14:41pm
We have been friends for 5 weeks now we
are engaged and having sex we love each
other very much and dont c a problem
however even though other peoples opinion
we know doesnt mater we are still
concerened what they might think and if
they will try too talk us out of it
any help?
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
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Posted: 01-16-06 14:52pm
If you two do not see a problem with it,
do not worry about what others say about
your situation as long as you are both
happy and are not questioning it.
Good luck!
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czarg
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Posts: 68 Location: Lagos-Nigeria
Perfect Love ... Posted: 01-17-06 20:34pm
Perfect love casts out all fear.
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 01-18-06 01:19am
I agree that it shouldn't matter to you
what others think, but personally I think
if you've only known a person 5 weeks and
you're already engaged then yes that is
moving too fast. What do you really know
about a person in 5 weeks? Marriage isn't
something that should be rushed into
because later on you could find things out
about the person that you really don't
like or don't think you can live with and
then you're going to be looking at
divorce.
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oh_mommy
Supporter
Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3739 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
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Posted: 01-18-06 01:47am
I agree with poohbear...Wellsaid
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Starwarschicky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 9
Posted: 01-18-06 12:16pm
Well he didn't give you enough back ground
information!!!!! Thats why!!! You see we
have known each other on again off again
since we were in 6th grade. We have
always been acquantinces, and I knew his
brother in high school and his best
friend!
Then we really started hanging out more
alone timeish probably ten weeks ago but
he didn't tell me he liked me and wanted
to further our relationship until 5 weeks
ago!
So you see it's not like woah fast!
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 01-20-06 15:20pm
My bf and I have been together for almost
a month but have been friends for longer/i
think while we were friends I had some
time to get to knoe him and now I am
falling or I am in love with him but I
would not think about engagment for a
while,probably a year or so.
