This is a complicated situation for me because first of her parents dont even like the fact that we are good friends let alone she is now my fiance they have never met me and every thing they know about me is negitive material execpt when my fiance sticks up for me. For example her farther works as a prison guard and has acsess too my information and has looked me up.Although I dont have an extensive record however I do have a marijuana possesion charge witch is something that is strongly hated by a military syled family.She has told them I have changed and I have but to them "once a user always a user"not to mention I have had other drug problems in the past that they know about because I didnt want anything too be a surprise.Also she is a very well pampered daughter with a high education"shes in collage"and shes really pretty.However im a good person but if you saw me walk by your house you would probably lock your door. Im 5'10 always dressed in black and have really long stragely hair. Im going too change my appearence cause im sick of looking like a bum too. We talk about everything and she thinks her parent would kill me if they found out and I want them too somehow get too know me since we plan on getting when she is almost finished with shcool so we do have enought time to blend this in correctly.Currently im unemployed and live in my parents house and never finished school, I really have nothing going for me at the moment but have every ambition too change my lifestyle but wright now I havent given her parents any reason for them too like me and I dont blame them at all. Im afraid they they wont even give me a chance though. Now things start too get more complicated on a past weekened event we were house sitting for some friends of my fiance"s and had the hole house too our selves., well scince we are in love with one another so much we started experience sexual curiosidies, scince we were both virgins and hadnt done anything but kiss prior too this event and had talked about spending our lives together we were never officialy engaged"no perposal"though but already felt like we were married so anyway we started fooling around and the first night all that happend was every thing but intercourse , I performed oral sex on her and and she did too me but I didnt want her too swallow cause I think thats nasty I finished on her vagina not knowing of the possibilitys of pregnency for that then the next morning we started having sex is was her first time so the pain was servere for her so I stoped the penitration now I didnt ejaculate inside of her but precum is now a worrie of ours. Not too mention we find out the the day we had sex she was in one of here most fertal days too get her pregnant. Later that night I purposed too her and she happily exepted now we are not worried about feelings changing between us our love is strong but if she is pregnant this could screw up everything even more than it is with her family and shes afraid that shell be kicked out of the house and they will stop paying for collage and we will have nothing at all. If anyone could help me out with some advise I would really aprieciate it I want this too work I love her so much and I want her to be happy so please help