It's not very likely but it there is still a chance. If your not ready tohave a baby then don't have sex. I don't mean to sound rude, but obviously your not ready to have a child, and there for doing the act(s) that create a child without any kind of protection or absteniance is very selfish.

Kimmeh you are in no place to say that someone else is or has acted irresponsably, you're child is now going to be fatherless because you made a wronge choice too! So don't bash her!

As for the poster of this! Sorry I forgot your name! Your chances are slim to none! Like 25% chance at most! Don't stress because if you do you will miss your period and stress even more! The key to this is keep your stress levels down until your next menstral cycle if you miss it! Still don't stress go buy an at home pregnancy test and test if it is postive go to a planned parenthood/family planning location where they can give you free medical advice!

Keep your chin up and don't worry, I am actually in the same postion and that is my plan of action! Feel free to private message me and we can work through our situations together!
Tara

and your in no place to say that. When I made the decision to have sex I also realised that I could get pregnant, and I thought long and hard about that and what I would do if I did get pregnant. I also talked to my partner about it. I have a right to say that I think it's stupid to have sex and then freak out, if you do that then your obviously not ready to have sex, and she should give it some more thought before doing it again. As for my relationship situation, well yes its my fault for choosing a looser for a boyfriend, but i'd also like to state the fact that he didn't always act the way that he does now, and when I got pregnant and before I got pregnant he told me how he'd stick through it with me, and he'd want it, and we came up with a plan about what would happen. I'd like to think that I was responsible. When I started having sex I went on birth control and used condoms...That's why I feel I have the right to say that I think she is acting stupidly and should obviously rethink her actions before she ends up pregnant...And she obviously doesn't want to be.

really I think anyone would freak out after having sex if ther is a change the ycould be pregnant. Im 17 and 23 weks pregnat tm. In away it was a planned pregnancy, but I still messed out. Really in my mined I think anyone would cuz when you take that test you find out if you life changes for ever or if it doesn't

Ok for anyone to tell anothr person they are not in any position to tell someone something is really wrong. Who are you to be like you cant say that cause ur baby daddy is a dead beat. Sorry but im 17 actually today ( its 2 30 january 17th) 20 weeks pregnant and the father of my baby is just like kimmehs... (sorry I dont know how to spell your name). He promised me and this baby the world and now I havent herd from him cause he has another girl. But I honestly think it is really ignorant and immature for someone to freak out if they could be pregnant. You knew the chances befor you had sex.
Yet this girl isnt saying she had sex tho. They messed around and their seems to be tha there was no actual penetration. So I would say you arent pregnant. But I also think before u mess around or end up having sex you need to really sit down and think and understand every possibility that can and most likely will happen.
And kimmeh if u ever need to talk you can message me anytime on here or something... And chicky or whatever ur name is... Grow up sweety !!
No one is god and all guys are not what they seem to be at first.... Thsat was a really health forum and mean thing you said to this girl. And my advice is that u should worry about what u do then to critosize someone else.

thank you, that was my point exactly (the first bit) if you're going to have sex or fool around you need to be educated and not nieve or your going to end up pregnant, and hell even if you are educated and take steps not to get pregnant, then you can still get pregnant...

Anyways :d i'd love to talk to you sometime, i'll pm you :d

back to this isssue lol..Im in the same situation but as starwarschicky said all you can do is not stress because if you do that it does affect your period & it can delay :) & dont worry tke care

your more than likely not pregnant...But I have a question...Whats up with him rubbing it on your butt ...With your panties on ...Is that one of his weird fantasys...Lol

you guys should be more careful about where he goes though..!!

starwarschicky
new user, becoming ehealthy


joined: 15 jan 2006
posts: 7

little worried
posted: 01-16-06 1:24pm

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my fiance and I could be pregnant, he told me he would never leave me to deal with this alone if I am. Still thoughts cross my mind... What do you think is my best choice... Believe him, or always doubt it?

By the way I am 17 and he is 20 my rents hate his guts
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um kimmeh might be pregnant and be fatherless...But wasnt it you that made a post asking for advise of if to trust your boyfriend/fiance whatever...So maybe you yourself will be fatherless ...So I wouldnt be talking down on kimmeh....Because I dont think she was bashing her ...Only giving advise..And telling how it really is...And there are many girls that are fatherless ...But they make it through because guys are sometimes more trouble than they are help!!

Okay, this is support....Stick to the original question...Honestly, being a pregnant teen is hard enough with out having ur support line bashing you too....So please, everyone, leave kemmeth alone...Everyone is intitled to their own opinion...Don't bring up old bones about her past. Shes pregnant, alone and trying her best...Thats all you can ask her to do. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!

I never said anything bad about kimmeh ...Lol I was sticking up for her...So your post must not be talking about me...I was making a point and yes I know this a support forum...Im not stupid i've been here for about a year now...

Wasn't a stab at you jillian...I just didn't want this to turn into a big cat fight

um okay...Hahaha its a forum there will be disagreements and arguments so I stated my thoughts about what was said my intentions werent to start a "cat fight" as you call it..But back to the main topic...As you asked..Lol

I posted already and I think kimmeh is an excelent person I have talked to her before and I am in the same position as she is... Oh and btw kimmeh if you see this post... My fathers baby had the nerve to call me tonight and act all excited and blah blah talking about saturday he's coming to get me so we can be together.... Uggggk problem !!!! Lol