Can Anyone Talk About Suicide Posted: 01-15-06 21:10pm
I am so depressed at this point I was in a
car accident a year and a half ago. I
have been going from doctor to doctor they
just throw pain killeres at me. I have
been in so much pain. On top of that my
fiancee and I constantly fight about his
daughter because before we got together
she had no rules. Now on top of dealing
with the pain we are trying to mix to
familys after almost two years his
daughter still cant deal with even basic
rules if you dont give her what she wants
she screams and throws things for hours.My
stress level is sky high and tonight I
actually put my pills out and thought
about suicide. I am losing control.
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Fairy*Godmother
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Don't You Even Think About It........... Posted: 01-15-06 23:51pm
From reading your post, I gathered you a
very strong willed person. You have put
up with a man who has a child, who
obviously is not making her mind/follow
the rules as well. It sounds to me like
you are in a :negative: relationship that
is going no where, first, you are having
to deal with pain, I didn't get many
details, so I 'm not sure whats up with
you. Does this child live in the home
with you or just have custody days? By
evne suggesting you put out your pills
would be saying 'i give up....Thats total
caca. You need to get away from the
situation before it escalates into
something worse. If this man loves you,
he would be willing to make his child
understand and obey the rules of the
house, anything to make it easier on you.
If not, don't let hte dorr hit you on the
way out, because there are way too many
others out here who would appreciate a
strong willed and determined woman.
Taking your own life is one of gods worst
sins....He has allowed me to defy death
twice.....And yes there are wonderful
treatments for depression that can help
you cope with life. I was a step mother
years ago and have been clinically
depressed for eons! You cna always send
me an email if youd like! I have all the
faith in hte world in you!
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mindoculus
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Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 17 Location: new york city
Posted: 01-17-06 11:13am
I get the impression that you are alone or
not receiving enough help.
What kind of help are you receiving ?
Who is nearby that you can rely on to
shoulder this burden with you ?
Can you turn to anyone ?
Basically, you need to share your problem.
Relieve the load by finding
others (professional others, family,
friends, etc) you can provide you
with either immediate or long-term help.
Another front you can work on is to seek
counseling for yourself.
Perhaps you could benefit from having
someone to speak to,
especially if this person may possesse
information about support
networks that would meet your specific
family needs.
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SHORTY1980
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Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 14 Location: ILLINOIS
Posted: 01-21-06 14:33pm
Thank you both for the advice. As for
family I am not close enough to talk with
any of them. Most of my friends are
yooung like myself 26. They are more
concerned with there own life. Yes I know
they really are not good friends then.
Maybe the right answer is profesional
help.I am feeling a little better. I made
it clear to my fiance that while he is
working ii can not watch his daughter
anymore on top of all my medical
conditions it is just to much right now.
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cut-alone92
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Posted: 01-22-06 19:17pm
I think you need to tell your man you
can't deal with this anymore. That you
don't want to spend your whole life
dealing with her throwing a fit like a 3
year old.Tell him you are depressed and
that your stress level is sky high and
that if he wants to keep you things are
going to have to change.
