Honey, b4 u die allow me say one thing 'do you realise the following:'
1. I will be lonely for life, missing you?

2. It happens to pple. Lovers, couples and soulmates have split before we were born, they are splitting and will continue to split till the earthw inds up.

3. There is a lot of life to live that you cannot afford to hang your on another flesh and blood.

4. Committing suicide is the ultimate sin against god, he owns your life. It is not yours. Do you realise he has prepared someone more special for you? Open your eyes!

5. When one door closes, we should not close our eyes not to see a new door open.

6. Decide to move on. Yr self esteem counts here. Your family reputation also matters. You are an asset for you, your siblings, yr parents and for me too.

7. Should you want to keep yr mind busy with a gist, mail me.


8r,
sam

Please don't hurt yourself! I have been in your shoes many times in my life as far as depression, sometimes over failed relationships, sometimes other stressors in life.

It does get better, I promise. The hurt will fade but you must hang on until then. Talk to someone. A friend, parent, suicide hotline, anyone. If you need to talk, I am here.

Dear lesigh.

You may find this hard to believe or understand, but things will get better for you. I too have been in similar circumstances in regards to thinking of taking my own life. I know that at times it can feel to difficult to continue on. The pain and negative thoughts can become unbearable, but you must believe me when I say "what lies ahead is a fulfilling and happy life".

Maybe not a year from now or even two or three. But one day you will look back at this and be so happy with where you are in your life. You may even look back and become quit distressed to think that you almost ended it all.

Having said this, right now you need to use you inner strength, don't dwell on your negative thoughts, counter act them with good thoughts. Think of your achievements and what you wish to achieve. Think of how happy you have been and know that one day you will be happy again. Take comfort in your friends, they care about you. Try and enjoy the simple things life has to offer, you can get great pleasure from even the simplest of things.

Our life doesnt always go to plan, but this is no reason for ending it. If our life went to plan and was meant to be only good, it would probably be boring. We all have our hard times to deal with, some worse than others, but we also have amazing and beautiful things to live for.

In one of your postings you said you wanted to "live a full life - and healthy long life". I want this for you too.