~*~Jillian~*~
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Location: Tennessee, USA
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How Would You Take This..?
Posted: 01-13-06 19:28pm
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Okay ...I will try to make this short..
I went on abortion debate a couple of
days ago...Posted my thought on
abortion...I think its wrong ...Unless
rape, mother is at risk, baby is at
risk...Well I posted my opinion because
its debate right?...Well this girl decides
to quote me...Keeps on and on ...Well soon
another girl comes on and is right along
with her ...Cussing called my child a
health questions child....Because I am
only engaged and not married to my babys
father...Talking down on me ...Every word
she says...Because the fact that I have a
health questions child...
How would you feel and how would you go
about this?
Oh yeah and not to mention she made a
whole thread all about it ...But the
moderator deleted it because the cussing
and stupidness of it all...And this is
still going on as of right now! Im so
tired of it and just dont know how to make
this crap stop!!
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lil_momma816
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Joined: 22 Dec 2005
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Location: Kansas City, MO
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Posted: 01-13-06 19:34pm
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Its ur opinion! Everyone has their own
perspective of things u should tell her
that and for saying all those things about
your baby is just wrong I mean jus bc ur
not married or anything gives her no right
to talk of your baby that way shes gettin
way too personal ! Idk say somethin dont
let her talk stuff especially if shes
puttin down your baby!
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 01-13-06 21:22pm
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Yeah true I have been telling her over and
over ...That its just not right to bring a
child up..But she just cant seem to get
that through her head...I dont know ...Its
really stressing me out ..Its like every
second she is popping up..And I never have
5 seconds ..To look at things I want and
to give advice to girls on here because im
trying to fight with her over religion and
things that are right and wrong when in
the first place it had nothing to do with
her ..She just stuck her nose in ...And
the debate was over abortion and now its
gone way farther than that...Heck its not
even about that anymore! :twisted:
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Cambion
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Posted: 01-13-06 22:06pm
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What the hell does it matter if you're a
single parent, engaged, or married? As
long as you do your best to care and
provide for your child, that's all that
should matter. Don't let the retards on
these forums get to you - they think
cursing like sailors makes them cool and
mature, and an angry or flustered response
from the people they offend only fuels
their desire to be complete douchebags.
Abortion is a touchy subject, so you're
always going to have people bickering
about it. Still, there's no reason to
insult one's child.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
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Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 01-13-06 22:10pm
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| cambion
wrote: | what the hell does it matter
if you're a single parent, engaged, or
married? As long as you do your best to
care and provide for your child, that's
all that should matter. Don't let the
retards on these forums get to you - they
think cursing like sailors makes them cool
and mature, and an angry or flustered
response from the people they offend only
fuels their desire to be complete
douchebags.
Abortion is a touchy subject, so you're
always going to have people bickering
about it. Still, there's no reason to
insult one's
child. |
yeah true that is ...I wish you only knew
the whole story..That would take hours and
hours of typing though but thanks for the
reply...I know abortion is touchie
...Which now our debate isnt even over
that ..
And they do love to put fuel on the
fire..But im not going to give up and let
them think that they can go and attack
another victim ..(someone who doesnt have
their same beliefs) because I know im not
the first person they have done this
to...And im strong and im not backing
down...Not being immature but they took it
to far by talking about my son...Lol (you
can tell im mad... :wink: )
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AlliE_18
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Location: uk
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Posted: 01-14-06 06:11am
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Yeh anyone would be mad and upset about
that, totally uncalled for! She's
probably a really unhappy person with her
own life, can't have kids, hates her dead
end job etc, so she's jealous n wants to
make everyone else unhappy aswel. I would
ignore her, she'll soon get bored and
disappear. She's probly 14 lol :wink:
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 01-14-06 14:03pm
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Yeah I stopped talking lastnight ...She
started being really stupid and calling me
a lesbian and saying that my finance was
my daddy...Which really bothered me
because my "real father" is died...And I
told her to stop with that crap...And she
kept on and on so I was like look im done
stooping ot your level...
But thank you guys for the replies..They
helped out and made me feel alot better
about what I was doing..
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-14-06 19:22pm
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Oh there are a couple of posters there
that are psychos. We have banned one
repeatedly and it just keeps coming back
with diff screen names. I stopped going
there cause it pissed me off so much. If
you have mega probs-talk to tazzy_d
(tanya) she's the mod there.
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Damita
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Location: Memphis
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Posted: 01-14-06 20:24pm
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:o don't trip, you have a beautiful
family. You and your fiance are blessed
to have little jace. So I wouldn't worry
about ignorant health forum.
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rasuyoung
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Posted: 01-17-06 22:07pm
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Sorry for your experience. However, and
i'm absolutely not saying you acted this
way in the debate (how would I know?) but
your post provides a good forum for
something i've noticed on this site: i've
read many people on this forum almost
violently opposing abortion, calling girls
who come on here for help "baby killers."
just as some people are adamantly
pro-life, others are adamantly pro-choice,
and each persons words will reflect their
viewpoint. No matter a person's thoughts
on abortion, we should be respectful
towards each other.
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michelle1981
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Posted: 01-17-06 22:19pm
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I actually read it a few days ago
jilliian. Sometimes ppl just don't care
about other ppls feeling and are very
crude! Take it for what it's
worth---nothing!
You're better than that.....
It's very harsh over there that's why I
read and that's it :wink:
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Surrender
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Location: canada
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Posted: 01-18-06 09:56am
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...I'm like you, I believe abortion is
okay if the mom or baby is at risk...But
you have to remember that there are physco
people out there that think aborting a
fetus for any reason is wrong...This
narrow minded people have probably never
been in a situation where they've been
raped or are at severe risk or w/e....They
just think that is wrong, -- period.So
just ignore them. No body should critize
your beliefs and opions...So just walk
away and ignore them girl. U know ur
better than to sink to there level....And
trust me, there are people like them at my
church and there is just no changing there
minds...So just ignore em hun
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shygirl11987
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Location: Maryland
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Posted: 01-23-06 00:56am
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I agree surrender ...Im 18 and actually
was raped and definitely debated the whole
abortion thing...But I decided to have the
baby im due in april ...And im giving the
baby up for adoption. I suggest you just
ignore these people they probably have
never been in your situation and who are
they to judge anyone? Who are they to
tell you whats right or wrong? Exactly.
Just think things out and come up with
whats best for you!
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2006
Posts: 752
Location: :( N.O. Evacuee now in TEXAS
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Posted: 01-23-06 06:05am
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medical question her.... Im sorry but
that is ignorance. I think you should
ignore it. People like that are probally
scum of the earth . Thats horrible hatred
to take out on a baby. medical question
her
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