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Q: How Would You Take This..?

asked by: ~*~Jillian~*~ on January 13th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Okay ...I will try to make this short..

I went on abortion debate a couple of days ago...Posted my thought on abortion...I think its wrong ...Unless rape, mother is at risk, baby is at risk...Well I posted my opinion because its debate right?...Well this girl decides to quote me...Keeps on and on ...Well soon another girl comes on and is right along with her ...Cussing called my child a health questions child....Because I am only engaged and not married to my babys father...Talking down on me ...Every word she says...Because the fact that I have a health questions child...

How would you feel and how would you go about this?
Oh yeah and not to mention she made a whole thread all about it ...But the moderator deleted it because the cussing and stupidness of it all...And this is still going on as of right now! Im so tired of it and just dont know how to make this crap stop!!

Replies(13)

lil_momma816

replied on January 13th, 2006

Experienced User

Its ur opinion! Everyone has their own perspective of things u should tell her that and for saying all those things about your baby is just wrong I mean jus bc ur not married or anything gives her no right to talk of your baby that way shes gettin way too personal ! Idk say somethin dont let her talk stuff especially if shes puttin down your baby!

~*~Jillian~*~

replied on January 13th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Yeah true I have been telling her over and over ...That its just not right to bring a child up..But she just cant seem to get that through her head...I dont know ...Its really stressing me out ..Its like every second she is popping up..And I never have 5 seconds ..To look at things I want and to give advice to girls on here because im trying to fight with her over religion and things that are right and wrong when in the first place it had nothing to do with her ..She just stuck her nose in ...And the debate was over abortion and now its gone way farther than that...Heck its not even about that anymore! :twisted:

Cambion

replied on January 13th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

What the hell does it matter if you're a single parent, engaged, or married? As long as you do your best to care and provide for your child, that's all that should matter. Don't let the retards on these forums get to you - they think cursing like sailors makes them cool and mature, and an angry or flustered response from the people they offend only fuels their desire to be complete douchebags.

Abortion is a touchy subject, so you're always going to have people bickering about it. Still, there's no reason to insult one's child.

~*~Jillian~*~

replied on January 13th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

cambion wrote:

what the hell does it matter if you're a single parent, engaged, or married? As long as you do your best to care and provide for your child, that's all that should matter. Don't let the retards on these forums get to you - they think cursing like sailors makes them cool and mature, and an angry or flustered response from the people they offend only fuels their desire to be complete douchebags.

Abortion is a touchy subject, so you're always going to have people bickering about it. Still, there's no reason to insult one's child.

yeah true that is ...I wish you only knew the whole story..That would take hours and hours of typing though but thanks for the reply...I know abortion is touchie ...Which now our debate isnt even over that ..

And they do love to put fuel on the fire..But im not going to give up and let them think that they can go and attack another victim ..(someone who doesnt have their same beliefs) because I know im not the first person they have done this to...And im strong and im not backing down...Not being immature but they took it to far by talking about my son...Lol (you can tell im mad... :wink: )

AlliE_18

replied on January 14th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Yeh anyone would be mad and upset about that, totally uncalled for! She's probably a really unhappy person with her own life, can't have kids, hates her dead end job etc, so she's jealous n wants to make everyone else unhappy aswel. I would ignore her, she'll soon get bored and disappear. She's probly 14 lol :wink:

~*~Jillian~*~

replied on January 14th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Yeah I stopped talking lastnight ...She started being really stupid and calling me a lesbian and saying that my finance was my daddy...Which really bothered me because my "real father" is died...And I told her to stop with that crap...And she kept on and on so I was like look im done stooping ot your level...

But thank you guys for the replies..They helped out and made me feel alot better about what I was doing..

lil_blaze2004

replied on January 14th, 2006

Supporter

Oh there are a couple of posters there that are psychos. We have banned one repeatedly and it just keeps coming back with diff screen names. I stopped going there cause it pissed me off so much. If you have mega probs-talk to tazzy_d (tanya) she's the mod there.

Damita

replied on January 14th, 2006

New User

:o don't trip, you have a beautiful family. You and your fiance are blessed to have little jace. So I wouldn't worry about ignorant health forum.

n0rthernbelle

replied on January 17th, 2006

Experienced User

Sorry for your experience. However, and i'm absolutely not saying you acted this way in the debate (how would I know?) but your post provides a good forum for something i've noticed on this site: i've read many people on this forum almost violently opposing abortion, calling girls who come on here for help "baby killers." just as some people are adamantly pro-life, others are adamantly pro-choice, and each persons words will reflect their viewpoint. No matter a person's thoughts on abortion, we should be respectful towards each other.

michelle1981

replied on January 17th, 2006

Supporter

I actually read it a few days ago jilliian. Sometimes ppl just don't care about other ppls feeling and are very crude! Take it for what it's worth---nothing!
You're better than that.....

It's very harsh over there that's why I read and that's it :wink:

Surrender

replied on January 18th, 2006

Experienced User

...I'm like you, I believe abortion is okay if the mom or baby is at risk...But you have to remember that there are physco people out there that think aborting a fetus for any reason is wrong...This narrow minded people have probably never been in a situation where they've been raped or are at severe risk or w/e....They just think that is wrong, -- period.So just ignore them. No body should critize your beliefs and opions...So just walk away and ignore them girl. U know ur better than to sink to there level....And trust me, there are people like them at my church and there is just no changing there minds...So just ignore em hun

shygirl11987

replied on January 23rd, 2006

New User

I agree surrender ...Im 18 and actually was raped and definitely debated the whole abortion thing...But I decided to have the baby im due in april ...And im giving the baby up for adoption. I suggest you just ignore these people they probably have never been in your situation and who are they to judge anyone? Who are they to tell you whats right or wrong? Exactly. Just think things out and come up with whats best for you!

~rubmybuddahbelly~

replied on January 23rd, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

medical question her.... Im sorry but that is ignorance. I think you should ignore it. People like that are probally scum of the earth . Thats horrible hatred to take out on a baby. medical question her

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