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Mel2002
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Joined: 12 Jan 2006
Posts: 3
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In Need of Some Major Advice
Posted: 01-12-06 17:53pm
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Ok, I went and spent 2 weeks with my bf at
the end of december and into the beginning
of january. While I was there, we had
unprotected sex twice and then I had a
period. My periods usually last 6-7 days
and this one only lasted 4 days. Then we
continued to have unprotected sex but we
used the "pull out" method. I'm not
sure if he pulled out everytime before he
ejaculated or not. I was just wandering
what your opinions are on the chances that
I have of being pregnant? My period
started on december 31st and ended on
january3rd. What do you think the
chances are that I was ovulating at that
point in time? The last day we had sex
was on the 9th of january. When can I
take a home pregnancy test? Please help
in anyway that you can!! Thanks!
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 01-12-06 23:43pm
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There is a big chance of
pregnancy...Because ovalulating usually is
right after your period....Take a hpt 4-5
days before you next period...If neg and
you dont have your period I would take
another one...And if its neg and still no
period I would see a doctor and get a
blood test done...
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needhelpfast
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Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 7
Location: miami
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I Need Help Fast
Posted: 01-13-06 00:44am
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I need help pls. I think my girlfrien may
be pregnant. She is to weeks late and she
has to urination a lot, but she still
feels some simtoms of her period coming
soon like cromp and some others. We
didn't really have sex, we never have, she
is a virgin just like me. We got in the
mood and we ended up naked from the waist
down and I didn't go in at all, may be .5
of and inch but I didnt go in her. I
think if she is is because a little sperm
comes out when a guy is doing something
sexual, but I was even clening it every
other few seconds. She is not in stress
and she doesnt do sport... She was around
her dad that had the flu about a week from
being late, but I dont know. She doesn't
want to take a test or anything and I
really want to know. She is a great girl
and really really smart and beautiful,
she has a lot going for her and she could
have a great career and a great future...
I just dont want anything to happen to
her. I need answers fast pls...
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needhelpfast
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 7
Location: miami
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I Need Help Fast
Posted: 01-13-06 00:44am
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I need help pls. I think my girlfrien may
be pregnant. She is to weeks late and she
has to urination a lot, but she still
feels some simtoms of her period coming
soon like cromp and some others. We
didn't really have sex, we never have, she
is a virgin just like me. We got in the
mood and we ended up naked from the waist
down and I didn't go in at all, may be .5
of and inch but I didnt go in her. I
think if she is is because a little sperm
comes out when a guy is doing something
sexual, but I was even clening it every
other few seconds. She is not in stress
and she doesnt do sport... She was around
her dad that had the flu about a week from
being late, but I dont know. She doesn't
want to take a test or anything and I
really want to know. She is a great girl
and really really smart and beautiful,
she has a lot going for her and she could
have a great career and a great future...
I just dont want anything to happen to
her. I need answers fast pls...
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Mel2002
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
Posts: 3
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Need Help Fast Reply
Posted: 01-13-06 03:01am
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I know that it can be scary but I think
that she should take a home pregnancy test
to make sure she isnt pregnant. If she
is two weeks late then she should probably
take a test. Even if you guys didnt have
sex, it is still possible for her to get
pregnant from what you guys did. I
wouldnt stress about it to much because
the chances are slim but since she hasnt
had her period then I would talk to her
about taking a test. I hope everything
works out for both of you. I know what
it feels like to be in this situation.
Just relax and take a test. You'll feel
much better when you find out for sure or
not. Good luck!
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needhelpfast
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 7
Location: miami
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Thnaks, But?!?!
Posted: 01-13-06 11:36am
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Thanks, but have you heard of this
happening before...I read that it has but
to girls with a lot of stress and she is
not in a lot of stress (she told me). I
guess I just want someone to tell me that
it has happend to them, but if you look at
it its really wierd... She has never mist
a period (if she has maybe a day or 2),
she never had to go to the bathroom as
much, and right when we did that she
started all this. But then I did some
reserch and it says that her ovilation
time was around the 17 and we did this
around the 24-30 (don't remember because
we did it like 4 different days, but
around that time period) so she was a few
days from her period and about a week away
from her ovilation, abd she also sometimes
feels cramps and other period simtoms, as
if its coming soon. I just think to my
self that it was to close to her period
and to far away from her ovilation time
and she satarted feeling this "pregnant
simtoms" like going to the bathroom a lot
about a week or so from doing what we
did... Isn't that a little to soon to
start feeling simtoms? She was around her
dad with the flu, could that slow it down?
Is there any chance she is skiping her
period? And if she is isn't wierd that is
right next to when we did what we did? I
just need some answers. Thanks a lot
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Mel2002
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
Posts: 3
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Thanks But Reply
Posted: 01-13-06 12:53pm
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Well, it is sort of strange. I have been
in a similar situation that she is in. I
missed my period for about a week and I
had to pee a lot and I took a test just to
be sure and it came out negative. Even
though she says that she isnt stressed,
she may be feeling sressed on the inside
and isnt conscience that she is stressed
so that could be affecting her period.
Many things can delay your period but most
of the time it isnt delayed for two weeks.
That is the part that makes me think
that she should take one just to be sure.
If she is takes a test and is definiely
two weeks late, the pregnancy hormone
(hcg) will show up in her urine. If it
comes out negative, then she should
probably see her doctor about it.
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Luvmypittbull
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 6
Location: Iowa
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Unprotected Sex
Posted: 01-13-06 14:08pm
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Even tho you are using the pull out
method, there is always a chance of the
pre semin getting into you also, I am 23
and have a 2 year old son. I had
unprotected sex with my spouse for about 5
years now and never got pregnet. When I
did get pregnet it was weird I had this
feeling that I was and took a home
pregnecy test it came back posotive.
I went to the local planned parenthood and
found out I was 2 weeks along. It is
possible depending on what home test you
use you can find out within 5 days or 3
months I have friends who took it and it
came back negative but they really were.
If your arent ready for a baby my best
suggestions is use birth control or get
the morning after pill, or make him use
protection reguardless how much he doesnt
like it
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 4580
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Posted: 01-13-06 14:09pm
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Hi there! Just a couple of quick notes.
The pull out method is not safe due to
the pre-cum. If you are peeing a lot and
cramping or have pain you could also have
a urinary tract infection. I am no Dr.
But my suggestion is to get checked out by
a dddr.
Good luck!
Keep us posted.
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lesliepei
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2005
Posts: 187
Location: Canada
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to Mel2002
Posted: 01-13-06 16:14pm
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I would definitely take a test to rule out
pregnancy, but I would be pretty surprised
if you were. Ovulation occurs 14 days
.Before your next period starts. So....If
you have a 28 day cycle, you would
ovulate around day 14. I hope this
helps.
Leslie
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needhelpfast
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Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 7
Location: miami
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I Dont Know What to Think Anymore
Posted: 01-13-06 16:35pm
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She dosnt want to take the test and she is
really about 9 to 12 days late, but she
crys and I feel so bad, and she sees it
all in a negative way saying that she is
pregnant and that shes not a virgin
anymore even when I didnt go in and that
what ever it is she diserves it for doing
this horible thing... And she keeps on
saying that she is in no stress but there
are a lot of things going on right now and
it could all be sebconshesly** (sorry im
spanish and dont know how to spell that
good..Shes american thugh) but all that is
going on is that he is about 9 to 12 days
late or maybe even less, and she doesnt do
sport and havent been stress till 2 days
ago, she goes to the bathroom a lot and
she has never been late before... It
would just help if someone here has had
this same thing happen to them...
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Luvmypittbull
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Posts: 6
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 01-13-06 23:00pm
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Dont sweat its called nerves if she doesnt
want to take it then im sure she knows she
isnt, any girl I know who thinks she is is
going to to know or not pregnacy isnt
something to put off
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needhelpfast
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: miami
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Yeah But!
Posted: 01-14-06 01:59am
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Yeah she doesnt want to take the test
because she doesnt want to admit that she
is in this situation... She still doesnt
want to believe that something like this
is happening to her. Anyone pls read 2
comments up and see if you can help me.
Thanks.
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needhelpfast
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 7
Location: miami
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One Question
Posted: 01-14-06 13:07pm
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My girl frien felt like she was going to
have her period about the time she was
due... But it never happend.... Do girls
feel that when they are pregnant??? Is it
normal, like she is pregnant or could
there be something els going on??
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 5041
Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 01-19-06 12:59pm
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Anything can make your body change and
have a late period. When I first started
having sex mine would be late a few times.
That is why I always used protection.
(key word protection)
i got pregnant 2 days after my period
stopped. I know this because my husband
is on a ship and he went out to sea the
next day. So there is a way that she
might be preggers a few days after her
period.
However if she is really pregnant maybe
you need to calm down and let her figure
it out for herself because it seems that
you may be one of the reason for her
stress.
Just my thoughts
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