Let me start off by saying please don't judge me. It was the right thing but wrong way to handle it. My wife (x wife) moved away from my family about 2 years ago. She had many problems mently. I tryed everything I could to make her get help. She has no family. After we moved into a new house I built for her thats when things started going bad again. She tryed to kil her self. That was the 3rd time in 14 years. I couldn't deal with it and asked her to get help and let me think what I need to do. Well she was up my butt 10 times worse. Thats when it started. I wasn't look it just happened. I had this girl well lady working for me for about 2 months now. She is also married with 2 kids like I was. Well to make a long storie short. After 14 months me and the wife are seperated and not talking. She still don't know about the affair has a little idea. Thats not were my problem is. My problem is with the person im was having an affair with we will call her lady x. Her marrage was also rocky at the time we started and still is. She told me a few months ago she was going to ask for a evorice. Well it didn't happen. I know her huban and I don't like him. I deal with him because of her. He has an idea what is going on. Well back to the storie. She told him 4 weeks ago she wants a devorice because she's not in love with him. They don't fight. They just seem to be friends. Well she still didn't make any moves yet. No lawyers no nothing. Just talking to him. Well when I say you only find true love once in a life time I mean it. Thats me im so in love with her it hurts every day she has to go home. I can't can or talk to her. I have to wait for her to call me. She dos. But it's short when she calls. Well I don't want to wait I can't wait for her. I tryed telling her many times. I can't. She knows me better than I know myself. Better than my wife for 14 years. I can't hurt her because I couldn't live with that. I don't want to end it. I live for her. Everything I do I do for her. I tryed to do for my self but it's not fun. I need help what do I do??????????????????