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Q: Advice About a Guy
asked by: concerned313 on January 11th, 2006
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~*okay so a guy that I met over the summer really broke my heart recently and I like cant get over it I keep trying to get him to hang out with me and tell me what really happened...So I need some advice slash insight into what may have happened...This guy I met this summer was really really into me...And treated me amazing I pushed him away so much for so long bc I am very scared by relationships my ex bf raped me and I dunno I dont think I deserve a relationship and im just scared. This boy over the summer we'll call him b is obsessed with icp etc and that scared me a lil bc I like grew up with a stigma about people that enjoy that kinda stuff especially to the intensity he does....The whole time we've been talking he had a gf but kept telling me he wanted to be with me...He broke up with her I recently let myself go and allowed myself to have feelings for him...I stopped caring what others thought about him and things were going good...I left school for winter break (we hung out right before I left cuddled a lot etc) and he told me he wanted me blah blah blah I never in the like 7 months weve been talking did nething but kiss him...So I came home for break had surgery and 4 days after my surgery he tells me hes back with his ex and doesnt like me anymore...I think the thing that bothers me most is that he says he doesnt like me nemore...I just dont understand how a week after I leave school and things r fine all of a sudden we r just friends...I dont event think I would be as upset if he said he still had feelings for me but he loved his gf...It just hurts and maybe im fooling myself but I feel like he is lying to himself...I dont know how u turn such intense feelings off so fast...He keeps contacting me and I visited school 2 days ago...He text me and apopgized for not being able to see me...This confuses me so much neone have ne advice? Am I trying to make myself feel better and think he still likes me? Should I just stop trying to contact him?I'm like always looking at his myspace and getting so mad that his gf and him say "i love u" all the time...Am I like crazy?*~

*anyone that actually read all of that and replies I really really appreciate it bc im hurting so bad and starting to feel maybe I really do deserve to be alone and treated like caca*
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Kloosty
replied on January 11th, 2006
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In my humble opinion you are not crazy for feeling the way you do. By what you have said he led you to believe that he felt strongly for you, and there was no reason to believe otherwise... You weren't wrong in getting togeather with him... If he trated you like you were the center of his universe, and never took advantage of you then that was somethign special... There was probably a reason he broke up with you, what that might be I have no idea, and I will not even hazard a guess becuase I know vitually nothing about him... I say you should confront of him and try to get the answer out of him, if he can't tell you, he can't tell you, and you shouldn't spend time with someone who won't tell you the truth... That is all I have to say for now... I hope everything works out for the best; whatever resolution that might be
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Glamorgirli
replied on January 12th, 2006
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Ummmm any guy who is really obsessed with icp that should be your 1st clue to get away!! He really dosn't sound like a type of guy to really be upset about......He left his ex for you and now he left you for her..Hes just immiture and wants to play around, you can find someone waaaay better....You said your still friends??? The only way to get over a guy is to get rid of all contact with him its hard, but waaay possible! Just tell him to go drink a faygo and f-off!

And if you haven't done so already, read the book hes not that into you!! Really great book helped me out a whole lot!!!!
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