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Q: Cant Stay Wet

asked by: jan10 on January 11th, 2006

New User

Hi this is my first time on this site...So if any one has any advice it will be appreciated.... Me and my boyfriend love sex but there is one problem. I cant seem to stay wet. Its like when we first start of im fine but once we get to going I seem to dry out down there...Or if we start then stop I cant seem to get wet enough or at all...So we have to use a lubricant but id perfer my own wettness instead ....Any advice anyone or does this happen to anyone else .....Thanks

Replies(6)

tasha82

replied on January 11th, 2006

Experienced User

Hi jan. That happens to me sometimes...After awhile the friction dries me out. What kind of lubricant are you using? The liquid kinds are good--they feel more natural. You can also try adding water to the area if the lubricant starts getting sticky. That seems to help.

riku

replied on January 12th, 2006

New User

Re: Cant Stay Wet

Try lots of foreplay bofore penetration.

munky23

replied on January 13th, 2006

Experienced User

Well I know personally the best way for me to get really wet is giving him head or doing 69 before sex. That way I am completely wet before he goes in and there is not pain or dryness at all.
You might just need to invest a good 20 minutes or so in foreplay.

czarg

replied on January 13th, 2006

Experienced User

Simple Answer Babe.

More of foreplay is the answer. Don't rush it. Be less anxious and play it with calm and fun.

Invest in foreplay.

mamamama38

replied on July 22nd, 2009

New User

i sometimes have this problem too.
What i find that helps the most in getting wet fast before sex is to try "orgasming" (by rubbing the clit) a few times before sex. 3 is usually enough, for me at least. And by then im very wet. Hope this helps

iPodAddict

replied on July 23rd, 2009

New User

You should lubricate properly and maybe try a little foreplay, its most likely that you need to lubricate a little bit.
You should be all good and set ^^

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