Dont blame yourself for this, try not to blame him either . Planning for a baby can get really technical what with all the dates and times e.T.C. Communication is the key just try talking about it with your husband dont turn it into a major discussion or accuse him of anything but give him the time to talk to you if things are getting on his mind. I am trying to ttc too and sometimes I think my partner feels alittle overwhelmed by the situation at times as well. Hope this helps, good luck :)

Dun have sex, with babies in the mind... It seems stressful.

Think intimately, just u n ur husband..... Loving each other and having sex in different styles, create the mood and atmosohere... With candle lights, aroma smell, make it exciting for both of u to venture... That way sex and baby would be natural and not stressful.

My husband and I get very stressed with trying for a baby to the extent we hate having sex........ But we got over it now... I try to cherish the nites to make him stay longer as he cums very fast. Sometimes, he hates himself for cumming fast......

Everybody is different...... So give ur husband some time...... Understand his needs and likes....

I had a talk with my husband and we decided to stop pressuring ourselves. I stopped marking down the day for sex. I want our baby to be made from love not just from sex.

You ladies are right, so no more pressure for me or him. We will continue to try, but i'll try not to be so militant about it.
It feels like a weight has been lifted.

Thanks

Glad to hear that you've sorted your problem, best of luck for the future! :)