Joined: 10 Jan 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Pennsylvania
I Never Get Attention Cause Im Ugly Posted: 01-10-06 19:34pm
Since I was little people have always
looked at my mom and sister and never me I
mean I get boyfriends but these boyfriends
always cheat on me with a better looking
girl. I've always been told that my
sister looks better then me and it hurts
cause im only 16 and people have not yet
said that I look nice or beatiful or
pretty. It makes me sad.... I dont know
what to do. Most girl my age have ,sorry,
a nice butt or some decent breast. And
none will take one look at me how can I
change that or my apperance?
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Jenny77
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Louisiana
I Know How You Feel Posted: 01-11-06 01:17am
Hello rosie. I want to let you know that
you are not alone. I am 28 years old and
I have never dated. All my life I have
been made fun of and ridiculed because of
the way I look. However, I choose not to
let this bother me because I know that
some people are shallow as a mud puddle
and that there is nothing you can do about
it. I know that I cannot change my
physical appearance so I try to change my
attitude. You must realize that beauty
is not everything ( I know it is not that
is easy). You are still a teenager, and
I realize that looks are important during
this phase of life. In time you will
meet the right person, and they will love
you for who you are and not what you look
like. By the way my brother is very
handsome, and he always gets attention so
I know how you feel about your mother and
sister being more attractive than you.
Remember that you are a special person and
there is nobody on this earth like you.
Be strong and get rid of those boyfriends
who ditch you; you are a beautiful person
who deserves to be treated much better.
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RubyLei
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005 Posts: 33 Location: UK
I Know Its Difficulty But Look At It From the Good Side Posted: 01-11-06 07:32am
I know how you feel to have a sister more
pretty but i'm not jealous of her i'm
happy for her...Although it is extremely
cliched real "beauty" is on the inside and
the only way people will be able to see
that is through the confidence and pride
in yourself...Everyone has low points
where they think "i'm ugly" ..."no one
loves me" but you have to realise that men
that look purely for an "ass" or breasts
aint worth any girls time...And believe me
the so-called "pretty" girls will learn
this for themselves. When you meet
someone who really loves you and who will
respect you he will think you are the most
beautiful thing...No matter what other
people think, thats why we all get
attracted to different
people...Individuality...Respect yours
rue
xxxx
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Faceless
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 8 Location: HOUSTON TX.
Posted: 01-12-06 23:54pm
That really sux! I have some friends who
feel that way everyone has issues about
themselves have you talked to your mom or
sister and told them how you feel? I'm a
teen and I know how it feels to be ood you
have to find good things about yourself,
and look at the things "you" like not the
things other poeple dont like. Look you
need to just chill and try to except who
you are stop caring what you think other
people are thinking of you, and dudes they
cheat a lot it doesn't mean there is
anything wrong w/you, you just need to
find someone that really cares for you,
medical question them! Don't let them
bring you down like that!
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czarg
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Posts: 68 Location: Lagos-Nigeria
Choose to Be Optimistic, Rosie. Posted: 01-13-06 00:09am
Hey rosie, you know being ugly is actually
a thing of the mind. I believe that
everyone has an equal opportunity
irrespective of the make up of your face.
I want you to know your beauty is inside
of you. Do activites that make you feel
fulfilled and happy; that is the beginning
of better days for you. :)
(ssobafemi@yahoo.Ca)
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karlina
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Brussels, Belgium
I Know Exacly What You Mean!!! Posted: 01-13-06 11:16am
Hi...
I know exactly what you mean - I have a
gorgeous older sister and cute little
sister, and i'm just not good enough...
Come on, i'm 16 (in a month 17) years old,
I have never dated or even kissed....
Great, huh?
I dont think I have any good advice for
you...If you find one, write to me :), I
just wanted to say that you are not the
only one...
Take care
karlina
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diamondsz
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Joined: 07 Oct 2005 Posts: 3333 Location: , Candyland-Canada
Thanks: 98
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Posted: 01-13-06 11:59am
Here is something to ponder
a man see beauty in different way so if
some guy says ur ugly another may think ur
the hottest thing around I find teenage
years being the worse beauty is everything
and it sucks. I was called god knows how
many names and yeah it hurts but once I
started standing up for myself ppl started
showing respect and go figure everyone
wanted to be my friend so I caved in to
the teenage world of drama which was
worse. Honestly I have learned alot and
I know teenage years are the worst but you
will make it just be head strong its kinda
funny though cause all the ppl who I was
made fun by are living really bad working
crappy jobs while im living the good life
and im 22 so its not that long ago...
Sometimes just dying your hair or giving
yourslef change can make a big difference
but do it for yourself, take kickboxing or
a form of martial arts I find it helps
with self esteem or join a sport I know
its sounds bad but sometimes meeting the
right guy is through the right chain...
If you ever need to chat send me a pm
jess
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winter78200
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Posts: 2
Posted: 01-16-06 17:25pm
Hey rosie and jenny, I hope you're feeling
better. I was a really awkward looking
teenager when I was younger, then I kind
of "bloomed" after my h.S graduation.
Then for the longest time, all I cared
about was my looks, dating the hottest
guys, partying... Etc. But I was never
happy. And I dont want you to think that
if you considered yourself pretty, it
would automatically buy you happiness.
I got over that phase of my life, b/c its
an empty, almost shallow feeling, and i'm
on here because I have a question about my
perscription for antidepressents.. Being
pretty does not make you happy. Its when
you're happy in you're own skin that you
will feel the best. You seem like a
down-to-earth girl, who is really sweet
and has a lot going for her, but you're
idea of you're own appearance keeps you
from really letting people in.. I could
be wrong, this is what i'm gathering.
Bottom line, dont let people tell you you
arent beautiful... Because if they do,
its them who are the real ugly ones
