Hello rosie. I want to let you know that you are not alone. I am 28 years old and I have never dated. All my life I have been made fun of and ridiculed because of the way I look. However, I choose not to let this bother me because I know that some people are shallow as a mud puddle and that there is nothing you can do about it. I know that I cannot change my physical appearance so I try to change my attitude. You must realize that beauty is not everything ( I know it is not that is easy). You are still a teenager, and I realize that looks are important during this phase of life. In time you will meet the right person, and they will love you for who you are and not what you look like. By the way my brother is very handsome, and he always gets attention so I know how you feel about your mother and sister being more attractive than you. Remember that you are a special person and there is nobody on this earth like you. Be strong and get rid of those boyfriends who ditch you; you are a beautiful person who deserves to be treated much better.

I know how you feel to have a sister more pretty but i'm not jealous of her i'm happy for her...Although it is extremely cliched real "beauty" is on the inside and the only way people will be able to see that is through the confidence and pride in yourself...Everyone has low points where they think "i'm ugly" ..."no one loves me" but you have to realise that men that look purely for an "ass" or breasts aint worth any girls time...And believe me the so-called "pretty" girls will learn this for themselves. When you meet someone who really loves you and who will respect you he will think you are the most beautiful thing...No matter what other people think, thats why we all get attracted to different people...Individuality...Respect yours

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That really sux! I have some friends who feel that way everyone has issues about themselves have you talked to your mom or sister and told them how you feel? I'm a teen and I know how it feels to be ood you have to find good things about yourself, and look at the things "you" like not the things other poeple dont like. Look you need to just chill and try to except who you are stop caring what you think other people are thinking of you, and dudes they cheat a lot it doesn't mean there is anything wrong w/you, you just need to find someone that really cares for you, medical question them! Don't let them bring you down like that!

Hey rosie, you know being ugly is actually a thing of the mind. I believe that everyone has an equal opportunity irrespective of the make up of your face. I want you to know your beauty is inside of you. Do activites that make you feel fulfilled and happy; that is the beginning of better days for you. :)

Hi...
I know exactly what you mean - I have a gorgeous older sister and cute little sister, and i'm just not good enough... Come on, i'm 16 (in a month 17) years old, I have never dated or even kissed.... Great, huh?
I dont think I have any good advice for you...If you find one, write to me :), I just wanted to say that you are not the only one...
Take care
karlina

Here is something to ponder

a man see beauty in different way so if some guy says ur ugly another may think ur the hottest thing around I find teenage years being the worse beauty is everything and it sucks. I was called god knows how many names and yeah it hurts but once I started standing up for myself ppl started showing respect and go figure everyone wanted to be my friend so I caved in to the teenage world of drama which was worse. Honestly I have learned alot and I know teenage years are the worst but you will make it just be head strong its kinda funny though cause all the ppl who I was made fun by are living really bad working crappy jobs while im living the good life and im 22 so its not that long ago...

Sometimes just dying your hair or giving yourslef change can make a big difference but do it for yourself, take kickboxing or a form of martial arts I find it helps with self esteem or join a sport I know its sounds bad but sometimes meeting the right guy is through the right chain...

If you ever need to chat send me a pm
jess

Hey rosie and jenny, I hope you're feeling better. I was a really awkward looking teenager when I was younger, then I kind of "bloomed" after my h.S graduation. Then for the longest time, all I cared about was my looks, dating the hottest guys, partying... Etc. But I was never happy. And I dont want you to think that if you considered yourself pretty, it would automatically buy you happiness. I got over that phase of my life, b/c its an empty, almost shallow feeling, and i'm on here because I have a question about my perscription for antidepressents.. Being pretty does not make you happy. Its when you're happy in you're own skin that you will feel the best. You seem like a down-to-earth girl, who is really sweet and has a lot going for her, but you're idea of you're own appearance keeps you from really letting people in.. I could be wrong, this is what i'm gathering. Bottom line, dont let people tell you you arent beautiful... Because if they do, its them who are the real ugly ones

beauty is a funny thing little one. everyone has a their own idea of it. My husband likes short little blondes with blue eyes and a little bit of a butt and medium size breasts so I was able to mesmerize and marry him. My son likes skinny girls with brown hair and green eyes and freckles. My brother just loves a red head with a big ole booty, lol, my sister in law is so round and sweet and adorable! My point being- To someone out there, probably a lot of someones, you are the perfect creation, just be sweet, honest and joyful, love life and love yourself and love will find you.

I'm 15 and i used to feel the same way. I feel ugly too. I have no boobs and no ass but there is someone out there who loves you just the way you are even if you think your ugly. I feel ugly every day.