|well after re-reading my post I realized I forgot to mention (most important and i'm sorry I had so much coffee I was vibrating as I wrote it) that he is a cocaine addict... Uses drinking as an excuse to do it too ("i only do it when i'm drinking") so he gets drunk on a weekday just because...
*sigh* I know I can't fix him but i'm pretty sure he hasn't told his "friends" that he's feeling out of control... I've just never been in this situation before and don't know how to help. Like I said before, I can't turn my back on someone.. I may not know him well at all but I see a great person who could be fantastic if this weren't in the way. And i'm not even thinking for myself, he could be great for someone else even, you know?