Thanks, I thought it was something like that.
Girl stick with him if you wish, but get ready for some heartache. He may be a real nice guy, ain’t we all, but as an active addict, things are not going to go as you hope they will. We use and we drink to assuage a obsession we can not control.
The idea of never getting drunk and then high is about the most unpleasant thing we can think of. We are scared to death of the concept of never getting high again. In fact many of us drink or snort, or shoot up or smoke ourselves right into the grave rather than get sober. This obsession he is in the grip of is that powerful. You have no idea what you are facing, but if you stick with him, you will get an inkling into its insane nature.
Your last line of your last post gave me pause. Honey, don’t play the door mat for this guy, he will use and abuse your affections if you let him. He may not want to, but he will. We are one selfish lot, and good people like you are just what we look for.
Look out for your own best interests, his path will go where it goes, you have no power over it, none!
Your friend
richard
