For all of the people that are coming to this topic and saying that it isn't addictive, keep it to yourself. You're just trying to find a way to feel better about your own addiction to a substance. Anything that you put in your body that it doesn't need (other than food & air) can be an addiction.
All I can offer is my own recent experience of trying to get off of pot. I am 30 years old and have smoked regularly (4-5 times a day) since I was 16. I had only quit successfully once when I was 20 for about 9 months to get a job. I did a lot of drinking and cig smoking then as a substitute to help me get off of it. During the whole 9 months I still wanted to get high (probably due to all of my friends constant use). I didn't really experience any withdrawal symptoms for one reason or another (cigs, regular alcohol use, or being in better physical shape).
About 5 years ago, during college, I decided to quit smoking cigs (first time trying). Everything worked out for me. I had multiple friends trying at the same time, a large bet for the winner-take-all, and an understanding with myself that I would quit after smoking for 10 years. (Call me crazy but I just got lucky I guess) One large problem for a lot of cig smokers is any drinking that they might do. It just seems natural to have a smoke in your other hand while you have that drink. This is one area that college binge-drinking actually helped me. From day one that I quit, that urge was there, a constant struggle. I think that people that go a week without a smoke make concessions for themselves when they drink next (they get used to failing). The first 5-7 days were the toughest, but I got through it by not letting myself down. Whenever I would think about having a smoke, I would think about all of the pain that I went through for the previous week (2 weeks, 3 weeks), and I wasn't going to let that be for nothing. That worked fro me, and after about 3 months I was pretty much done with any pain. I still have an occasional craving 5 years later after a whiff every so often. Oh and I almost forgot the biggest reason why I think that I was able to pull it off, my trusty hitter box. Every time I wanted a cig, I would have a hitter instead. To me, it was a way to justify my quitting cigarettes. "At least I'm getting something from the hitters, while the cigs are pretty much worthless"
I've always known that pot had been a hindrance in my life, in one way or another. I knew it was a problem. I've always made half-assed attempts to quit at new-years which never lasted more than a few days. I am what you would call a major POTHEAD. When I say pothead, I don't mean the amount that I smoked (1/8 to a quarter a week), I mean the frequency. During the past 10 years of my smoking, I probably went 5 days of not smoking per year, and not by choice. I either couldn't find it, or was too physically ill to ingest the smoke for a day. I would take a cold that should last 3-7 days and stretch it out for weeks because of my inability to stop smoking. “I know what will make me feel better….”
For whatever reason (probably because I turned 30) I was going to make this new-years the year that I did it. If anything, I was going to do it to prove to myself that it was possible. I had done many other drugs throughout the years, but I never saw a real need to quit pot (have a home, a successful job, a loving girlfriend). I was still as weak as usual during the first few days of the year, “when this bag is gone, I’ll quit”. And then that day finally came, I was out of pot; it was either put up or shut up. 10 years of constant smoking, pounds and pounds, and thousands of dollars all came down to this one serious attempt at quitting. The first few days actually weren’t that tough. I didn’t even really have any problems falling asleep (probably due to the massive amounts of THC still in my system) for the first few days. Then it did become hard to fall asleep for about the next week, but I was expecting that part.
After about day 10 I started having dreams again (or at least remembering them) which was a sign to me that it was starting to leave my system. Right around then was the first time that I noticed a slight headache during my daily routine. It was worse in the mornings than it was throughout the rest of the day. I work out of my home, so I spend a large portion of my days indoors. I did notice that my headaches got better when I would run any errands or went to any appointments, which got me thinking. After about day 20 of quitting, and about 14 days of headaches, I started to question the cause of my headaches. Marijuana withdrawal never even entered my mindset for the possible reason for my constant headaches (it’s not addictive, or really bad for you, so if anything, quitting should help with headaches right?). The first culprit that made sense to me might be a carbon monoxide leak in the house, so I went out and bought the best detector that I could find. That wasn’t it. The next thing that I could think of was that it was a virus. I still had about a week and a half of some antibiotics left over from a few months earlier, so I decided to self-medicate myself. After going through about 10 days worth of that and no change in my condition, I started to get scared. It was time to see a doctor. I went to see a doctor, and after everything that I told him and a battery of tests (I left out quitting pot part), he decided that I would need a catscan to check for any abnormalities such as tumors. All turned out to be alright. It was then and only then that I decided to analyze my pot addiction to be the culprit. I didn’t want to confide in any of my co-workers or family, so I would have to ask my one friend that had been a pothead with me throughout the years. He had quit a few times throughout the years for his job, smoked as much if not more than I did, so I valued his opinion on this subject. HE SAID IT WAS POT WITHDRAWAL, and he had experienced the same symptoms almost every time that he quit (every few years). He said that those headaches would last up to 6 and sometimes 8 weeks depending on the length of use. You have no idea how good this made me feel. It is about week 5 for me now, and only now are my headaches starting to subside. Since I know people sometimes don’t like to read long posts, I’ll put the rest (and most important) on a new post.