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Q: Scared And Confused..

asked by: killtheglamour on January 9th, 2006

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I've only been sexually active with one boy.We had unprotected sex twice,but he didn't ejaculate inside me.A couple months later,i'd noticed some odd symptoms.I had a really bad yeast infection at one point,and it went away once I got my period,but then came back.I never treated it and eventually it went away.Sex became extremely painful.I felt like I had to pee every 5 minutes,and only a very small amount would come out.I feel tired all of the time and have been sleeping way too much lately.
One side of my labia is swollen.His ex just told him she'd been diagnosed with chlamydia,so i'm suspecting it's that.However,i've also discovered that I have about three lumps on my anus.They are purplish in color and can only really be seen when I strain.They don't hurt or itch and have been there for about 2 or 3 months now.They are hard.I've also noticed I rarely pass stool anymore.About once every 1-2 weeks,and I have to strain for that.Could I also have hemmorhoids or could this be genital warts?!? Please help me ease my mind,i've been going crazy over this.And i've been so depressed.It just doesn't seem fair for this to happen to me when I was a virgin =(

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not perfect

replied on January 9th, 2006

Experienced User

You need to get into the doctor .A.S.A.P! Chlamydia if going untreated can cause you serious harm later on, even infertility.

I've never had hemoroids, so I really don't know what they look like, but I would think they'd be larger than a few small dots. Plus with them, they would itch and burn and everything else.

Please, always wear a condom from now on. Never trust someone when they say they're clean unless you were there at the doc with them when they were tested and got the results.

Make an appointment first thing in the morning, tell them what you were told about the stds with your ex and your symptoms and they could maybe even get you in the same day. Don't put this off!

numba1eyceygurl

replied on January 10th, 2006

New User

Use Condoms

I think that it is a great possibility that u have chlamydia or uti. U should definitely go to the doctor because I have no idea what's wrong with ur anus. I'm really worried though because I have never heard of any such thing. Be more careful and use condoms. I know that u love him but u don't know his ex, u don't know all the things she may have, all the things he may have and not know it. Herpes can take years for u to get symptoms. Both of u should go and check it out.

addled

replied on February 13th, 2006

New User

Get thee to the doctor right away. Seriously. It sounds like you probably caught a combination of things that a) are not going to go away without treatment with antibiotics, b) really need to be treated, and c) might turn into (or have turned into into) pelvic inflammatory disease, which really really needs to be treated (with antibiotics).

There's no downside to going to the doctor -- she's not going to tell you you have to have it amputated :-) -- and why walk around with festering infections that can easily be cured with antibiotics? But if you don't get them taken care of, they're not going to go away by themselves, theyare going to linger in your system and keep making you sicker, and possibly cause a lot of unnecessary harm. So go to your gynecologist, or
planned parenthood, or a public clinic, or whatever doctor you have, and get yourself sorted out!! There's really no time to waste.

justinsgirl21

replied on October 26th, 2008

Experienced User

Well ive heard that chlamydia can be treated,so if thats the case then just go get tested and if you do have it just get the medicine subscribed for you and you should be fine.and about your anus,jus get that checked too!Whatever it is the doctors should be able to treat you! Id advise you to always use a condom with this guy if you're still with him!

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