Hey, i'm 23. I've had problems with ed since I was 19. I've got an awesome new girlfriend, and so far I can't keep it up long enough to have sex with her. I just got out of the military, my new hmo doesn't start until next month. I went to a doc today who basically told me to wait until I have health insurance.

So far i've blamed it on stress and drinking (which may be partly true.) I can get an erection, but I can't keep it going. Does anyone have advice on anything that may help until I can see a doc, or at least a way to bring it up to her without her thinking i'm a loser in the bed. Any advice is appreciated.