You are possibly eligible for ss benefits, but remember that the maximum per family benefit is around 1800/month. What happens is you apply for benefits and get turned down, something like 90% are turned down, then you go before a judge who ultimately decides your case, takes any where between 1 1/2 to 2 years for the process to be completed. Also you have to wait until you are off work for 6 mos before applying for benefits. Again remember the maximum family benefit is around 1800/month. You would be awarded what ever amount you are entitled, then your children would split the dependent award equally between them. An example is your are awarded 1200/month, then your children would recieve 150 each, that totals 600/month, which is the maximum benefit.
On another note, I would say it is the soma making you woosey, have the doc try robaxin. The darvecet is such a small amount that it shouldn't be causing the side effects mentioned. People with chronic severe pain hardly get any of the drugged side effects from their narcotics. For example I take 100mg of oxycotin around 60mg of loratab 4500mg of robaxin daily and i'm always sober as a judge. Good luck to you.